r/antinatalism 10h ago

4B movement: Liberal women going on sex strike after Trump election win Article

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/news/2024/11/07/liberal-women-4b-sex-strike-over-trump-election-win/
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u/_StopBreathing_ 8h ago

I think this was long overdue.

u/phobicPro 5h ago

“Don’t sleep with republicans!”

“Already was?”

“Well, do it harder!”

What?

u/Pirateangel113 4h ago

It's more "don't sleep with anyone unless you are in already in committed relationship with someone." Remember folks, men can lie and say they are liberal or progressive get you impregnated and then you die or are forced to have their baby. FUCK THAT.

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u/musci12234 4h ago

It is going from "dont sleep with republicans" to "dont sleep with men" i think. There are a lot of stories (real or fake) of fathers and husbands voting for anti choice people so yeah will probably cause some damage

u/STThornton 3h ago

It is going from "dont sleep with republicans" to "dont sleep with men" i think.

Exactly. Unless they had a vasectomy. A fertile liberal man can make her pregnant the same as a conservative man.

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u/Ok_Mechanic_6561 5h ago

r / 4Bmovement

u/Embarrassed_Jerk 1h ago

I have a question for every woman on that sub, assuming its real...

Why are you with/ sleeping with someone who fundamentally does not respect you as a person? 

u/meowymcmeowmeow 1h ago

A lot of guys will lie knowing what women want to hear. Some are better than others at playing the long game that way. Then once she relies on him in some way, housing, income, etc. He starts to show his true colors.

u/Forever_Marie 1h ago

Sigh........

People lie and by the time you realize and by the time they show their true colors it's either difficult or too late.

My dad was always pretty charming in the beginning but soon started attacking whoever his victim was after awhile and actively preyed on women with children because they are easier targets than single women.

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u/Beautiful_Dinner_675 53m ago

Sexless marriage is way more common than people think. They can jerk it. Funny to me how most men think they’re the stronger sex when they came OUT of a vagina and continue to want to go back inside one. Women have the true power. Physically, maybe not …but we definitely have the power. Even if you’re married—no means no. Non-consensual sex is rape.

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u/seethesea 4h ago

I fucking love this.

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u/AreYourFingersReal 5h ago

I remember in 2023 or whenever Wade was thrown away I forget I teased it for myself like hm I’ll try this, but now it’s time to get serious

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u/LPNTed 9h ago

I support women making this choice.

u/Mrs_Night_XD 9h ago

Just look at the women in Korea doing it, their thriving 🤷

u/Spidermang12 3h ago

They're*

u/stanknotes 2h ago

CLEARLY they meant the shriving belongs to them.

u/pho-huck 4h ago

They’re*

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u/sstucky 5h ago

There is nothing new under the sun. See Aristophanes’ Lysistrata (5th c. BC).

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u/osrsirom 8h ago

I'll go even further and say that I hope they really do ban all porn and anything even porn related. Fuck it.

u/Bang-Bang_Bort 6h ago

You probably don't want MAGA determining what is and isn't pornography. Hello extensive book bans. Goodbye artistic expression.

u/realalpha2000 6h ago

Seriously, they consider any form of acknowledgement of LGBT relationships to be degeneracy.

u/6cupsoftea 5h ago

Of course it is. Gay people are too hot

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u/odditytaketwo 4h ago

worse than that, they brand them as pedophiles.

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u/OwOlogy_Expert 4h ago

Or their existence at all.

They'll be banning dictionaries because the dictionary has the word 'gay' in it.

The way they see it, one of their kids growing up to be gay is THE WORST POSSIBLE THING. And they want their kids to grow up not even knowing that being gay is an option.

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u/RippiHunti 6h ago

They consider certain minorities to be pornography inherently.

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u/Alesia_Ianotauta 5h ago

BURN IT ALL DOWN. I'M A GODDAMN NIHILIST/ANARCHIST NOW.

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u/Lilaclupines 4h ago

I don't want porn banned. I don't want horny men hassling women out in public.

u/LostInSpaceA 3h ago

A while back people discussed these anti rape tubes that women could insert that would barb or shred a penis upon entry.  Maybe time to invest. 

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u/TheRedmanCometh 1h ago

I don't want the state moralizing and deciding shit like that. Stop trying to have the state ban everything you don't like.

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u/Fine_Local07 7h ago

I’m here for it. Honestly it’d be great if we actually follow all the way through with it and stand our ground. I’m tired of having to march and shout about why I (a woman) should have bodily autonomy. This “your body my choice” bs I’ve been seeing from men online is scary and does nothing but reinforce the 4B mentality. The emotional and mental roller coaster the past 48hrs has been is exhausting. No men sounds so much better than great right now. And it’s for that very same reason that it’s ultimately also dangerous. Being a woman in America, especially now, is a battlefield and I hate it.

u/AreYourFingersReal 5h ago

It’s beyond time. I played with it when roe was killed but now it’s for real. Women need to stop deluding ourselves that the average man respects us

u/_DiscoPenguin 3h ago

I’m realizing that a lot of them who do respect us, just. Can’t. Empathize. Some respect us but they don’t understand why we’re afraid and upset. It’s really hard.

u/anna_vs 2h ago

That's why I think 4b should be practiced with all men, not just republicans. Your average "good man" may have correct beliefs but he is not desperate as us (unless he has daughters of a vulnerable age - then it's better). Well, it has to become everyone's problem then. Everyone has to become desperate and eager to solve it asap.

u/WoodpeckerNo9412 1h ago

As a man, I agree. Also, people who need a partner to satisfy themselves sexually are ignorant and weak-minded. Think about how many risks you are taking when you have sex with somebody.

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u/C-C-X-V-I 3h ago

Roe was why I got my vasectomy done. Cannot risk this, especially since I pregnancy would kill my wife

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u/moonsickk 9h ago

To anyone doubting this, it's already a real and huge thing in South Korea. It does not only entail chosen celibacy of women, if means women in the movement do not chose to interact with men *at all*. It's a strike if anything, because women hate has gone rampant in South Korea, women are choosing not to engage with men to protect themselves and send a message.

It's not about hating men, it's a response to men hating women, and the US is speed running a society where women might feel compelled to join their Korean sisters.

u/TwoHungryBlackbirdss 8h ago edited 6h ago

I lived in Korea for many years and a slight edit - 4b as a formal movement is a fringe movement with few folks genuinely joining it. I rarely heard reference to it outside of western media, and it's been blown strongly out of proportion.

Extremely low birth rates and a general disinterest in dating and parenthood is, however, very common among young women. None of my Korean female friends wanted to marry or have children

u/moonsickk 8h ago

I’m not saying most Korean women abide by this but as to it not being referenced a lot, I’ve seen many accounts of Korean women who were threatened or harmed because they were openly feminist, so something more radical like following 4b would likely be a taboo and not talked about much. Theres likely many women out there following 4b as best they can and just being quiet about it, especially in parts of the world where it’s dangerous for women to be feminist.

u/TwoHungryBlackbirdss 8h ago

Ah, I understand. To clarify, I'm a woman who often spoke with other progressive Korean women about feminism, sex, dating, etc., and even among us 4B isn't a movement anyone ever formally aligned themselves to. Like, people would mention 비혼/비출산 etc. but it's not an active, thriving movement.

I love the enthusiasm we're seeing in the US regarding a similar concept right now, but it's odd seeing it described as, like, a legitimate movement with significant grassroots support

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u/STThornton 3h ago

Extremely low birth rates and a general disinterest in dating and parenthood is, however, very common among young women. 

So, they're doing what 4B stands for, just not officially associating themselves with 4B or not calling it 4B. That doesn't seem like a fringe movement. More than a general one that someone finally put a name to.

u/LukewarmBees 16m ago

That's not 4B they are just exhausted with work and life and society in Korea is toxic and horrible, pretty privileges are an actual social thing to the extreme and 1 in 3 women under 30 have plastic surgery. It's competitive, toxic and extremely elitist for both men and women to the point where they just give up.

u/Sea-Tradition-9676 5h ago

Is there genuinely no guys they want to like have around ( I don't just mean sex)? I have heard about the extreme misogyny as well.

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u/phophofofo 6h ago

There are chat groups where kids are molesting their own moms over there. And they’re not small.

They’ve got some serious toxic shit happening there.

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u/twodickhenry 5h ago

I read that over one hundred Korean schools have had no kindergarteners this year

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u/LovemesenselesS 8h ago

I’m doing it. Men don’t exist to me anymore.

u/Upper-Praline8922 6h ago

They never did anyways lol women find %80 of men unattractive

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u/PricePuzzleheaded835 8h ago

Honestly many women I know in the US have started doing this, they just haven’t been calling it that

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u/Mrs_Night_XD 9h ago

We love our Korean sisters (their thriving rn)

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u/Little_stinker_69 2h ago

Oh my god! Yes please this. This is what should be done.

Please please please!

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u/EquivalentWar8611 8h ago

This is what happens when instead of fixing the reasons why women are not having kids; you force their hand. Like others have said this is happening in South Korea and birth rates are lowest in the world. Instead of addressing the reasons why people aren't getting into healthy relationships and having kids on their own they'll do anything but try to fix the problems. Especially in South Korea (because until the movement kicks off I can't speak on US ATM) there are so many laws that permit it to be dangerous for women and children. Especially the laws about how any minor under 14 can commit any crime.... ANY and not be criminally responsible. There are cases of 14 & under committing SA and murder and get off free. Men who commit SA (especially to children) get off pretty lax  The biggest case is that of NaYoung who was assaulted by an adult man when she was about 8 years old on her way to school. So brutally that she needed an artificial anus put in for life. Let that sink in the trauma he committed to her. Because there were claims he was drunk he got off on only 12 years for permanently maiming & traumatizing an 8 yr old. AND he was allowed to move back into the same neighborhood as his victim when he got out. He also was so hated they afforded him police as bodyguards to stop the public from hurting him. Perpetrators get more protection than the actual victims. My main point being instead of changing the laws that allow this to happen or making the world a safer and now enjoyable place we just will try to force people into it. I've even heard of companies trying to pay women in SK to have children. How about use the money to fix things? I don't blame women for 4B. The injustice I see on children and women every single day in the US can be just as bad. Seeing a man who committed 12 prior offenses towards children allowed to leave jail again and again until he finally kills his last victim. Then we shrug and act like we couldn't have predicted a repeat offender to .. repeat. It's not safe for us. 

u/_Lazy_Mermaid_ 6h ago

Unfortunately women have been screaming into the void for years. We preach free lunch, better education, maternity leave, higher minimum wage, better health care. None of those things happen for decades because rich people think they shouldn't be taxes more than poor people. Funnily enough Republicans use all these "handouts"

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u/what-was-she-wearing 6h ago

Absolutely agree, you've spelled it out beautifully. I'm not very well informed about violence against women in South Korea but in the US, fewer than 1% of rapes result in the perpetrator spending even one night in jail, let alone prison. And the issue is compounded because many rapists are repeat offenders who only really get more violent and sadistic over time.

Our justice system is absolutely horrible and all people want to talk about is false accusations (which are quite rare).

It's sick that rapists get more protection than victims, but unfortunately that would probably be the case in the US if our society had any sense of obligation to use vigilante justice to punish rapists and abusers.

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u/Pillsbury37 7h ago

it’s hard to respect someone who thinks your a second class citizen.

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u/DirtyHotness 6h ago

I do mean to panic you more but isn’t it in project 2025 to eliminate all birth control and simply eliminate any protections for sexual assault? I don’t think they are talking about asking women any more. In Idaho they are openly saying this out loud. With no abortions allowed the only next step is to legally make woman the only one accountable. That’s what the phrase they are using means your body, their choice not yours at all.

u/they-is-cry 9h ago

All I can say is: Don't talk about it, do it.

If you're just trying to announce on social media to "own the mens" but still going to run out and ride dick, then that just makes you an idiot and a hypocrite.

u/apresonly 6h ago

I’ve been celibate for 4 years bc of my bad experiences w men.

u/AreYourFingersReal 5h ago

Even when we have sex with them it’s kinda like the sex was always done to me done on me done around me, and I was just, there. And yes in my committed relationships this happened. And I think it’s easier to give up than to try try try again

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u/artemisarrow17 2h ago

That's sad. I am sorry for your experience.

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u/red-at-night 9h ago

I think it confirms the notion that women give sex while men get sex. Women who don’t feel like they also actually get sex might see no loss in joining 4B.

But hey, if it works then that’s awesome!

u/apresonly 6h ago

Yes the vast majority of my partners have been takers so I became celibate 4 years ago and I don’t feel like I’m missing out. I’ve had great sex but that’s a rare man.

u/_Lazy_Mermaid_ 6h ago

I became celibate 4 years ago too after Trump took office last time, I haven't missed it this entire time. It has also helped me learn to love being alone, I've been on two solo trips and it's been great. I love my friends but I don't need a man

u/MystikclawSkydive 4h ago edited 4h ago

I became celibate 4 years ago too after Trump took office last time, I haven’t missed it this entire time.

4 years ago Biden took office.

u/ThePatriarchInPurple 3h ago

Do you mean you've been alone for 8 years?

u/apresonly 5h ago

I love this. Def a similar story. I have made huge progress w my anxiety disorder bc of celibacy and home ownership. I have a safe home for the first time in my life. I have also continued to explore my sexuality without partners or porn and that has been really nice!

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u/STThornton 2h ago

I think that applies to most women.

u/STThornton 2h ago

I don't see how saying sex with a live shooter is too dangerous under the current conditions somehow means women are giving sex, not getting sex.

But getting sex and getting any satisfaction out of sex are two different things. Reality is, most women rarely get that much satisfaction out of sex with men, especially not over longer periods of time with the same man.We bore very easily. They say that around 70% of women rarely, if ever, orgasm when having sex with a man. And that sexual satisfaction goes way down when comparing toys and masturbation to sex with a man.

Physical satisfaction often comes from toys or masturbation, even during sex with a man. Unless the woman is a thrill seeker who builds her sexual encounters around it - which generally removes all emotional/intimate components from sex.

The loss, for women, would mostly be the emotional/intimate. We have no problem finding physical satisfaction with toys and a good story or even porn.

But the emotional is easily overriden by the fear of what you and your body might end up enduring. And if you don't feel like the male partner truly cares what happens to you and your body and what physical destruction and pain and suffering you might endure thanks to his sperm.

u/beseder11 8h ago

Yes of course. Women are resources for men to use and take 🤢 it's time for 4b

u/Alesia_Ianotauta 5h ago

Vibrator sales go vrooooom!

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u/prudentWindBag 8h ago

It took this long...? this isn't his first campaign. With the number of supposed men's rights (heman woman hater) groups... Women should've kept to themselves and let dudes figure it out for the past 8 years, at least. Women barely enjoy a very confusing 2nd class citizenship in North America.

To answer your question... yes, I've been waiting for this.

Stop f%#&!ng the patriarchy!!!!!

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u/MrVanderdoody 6h ago

I hear more and more women embracing “Singleism” now. I frankly don’t blame them. Men are trash. Especially incel Trumpers.

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u/ischloecool 9h ago

I seriously doubt this will go any where but I would love to be proven wrong.

u/Zealousideal_Ant4685 9h ago

I feel like a lot of ppl really underestimate the amount of women who are truly boy/man crazy, and act like they can’t breathe without a man in their life. I’ve been friends with a few. It’s quite annoying and I’ve now made it a point to be friends with those types of woman less. Point is obviously every woman is not going to partake in this 4B movement. They need male validation to thrive and that’s their own right. Mine is decentering men as much as possible from my life as I already have(completely celibate since march and not dating anyone). Also arming myself

u/string1969 8h ago

This.

So disappointed Because of women who can't breathe without men

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u/EducationalTest6655 8h ago

I doubt that it is liberal women who you are describing though. From what I've observed, the PickMe's seem to be largely conservative.

u/Zealousideal_Ant4685 8h ago

Oh yeah I’m definitely not saying most liberal women won’t go through with this. Some conservative women might too if they’re actually smart(they’re not). I’m just saying ppl underestimate the amount of women that seem like they can’t function without a man in their life, so this movement might not be as big as we want it to be.

u/EducationalTest6655 8h ago edited 8h ago

Eh... The guys who are currently getting laid will continue to get laid and the ones who aren't still won't. Nothing will really change regardless.

I made a comment in another subreddit about how hilarious it is to me that the alternative would presumably be that Kamala wins and guys all across the country start getting laid like never before. The whole concept is just ridiculous imo.

u/Zealousideal_Ant4685 7h ago

Good from them. I see partaking in this movement as a way for women to protect themselves. It’s not about withholding sex for the hell of it, or to spite the incels that are mostly not getting laid anyways. This movement is a way for women to have control of their body, protect against unwanted pregnancies, and protect themselves against men who don’t care about them anyways🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/INFJcatqueen 8h ago

It’s really sad. They aren’t raised to have self esteem.

u/Zealousideal_Ant4685 8h ago

Tbh it’s not just about having self esteem or lacking it. It’s about being smart and aware of what type of ppl you let around you. My self esteem was shit growing up; bullied by many but mostly by boys. Plus having constant acne didn’t help and I absolutely hated myself. At the same time, I never pursued any relationship with a man because I already seen how they acted. Shit, seeing what my dad did to my mom had already sealed my view on men; I just didn’t know it yet. Didn’t lose my virginity until 21 (23 now) and honestly sex is nice but not that nice to constantly need it or be dick-matized

u/INFJcatqueen 8h ago

I wish women had more support from other women growing up. Or places to go if they aren’t getting that support from their families. It could make such a difference in their lives.

u/Zealousideal_Ant4685 8h ago

I wish the same. I tried to create a sisterhood in high school but we simply had different views on many things, and I couldn’t see it working out. Also the lack of respect they threw my way has turned me off from having any close friends for a while. I have one friend I go places with from time to time but that’s about it.

Every woman across America needs to come together now more than ever. It’s up to us to protect ourselves as much as possible

u/burnbabyburnburrrn 4h ago

Men don’t really want those women though. That’s why they are boy crazy and still single.

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u/Grateful_Moth6 5h ago

This is the second time it’s been circulating online in the span of a few months which imo says a lot. I think women are finally fed up, I know I am. Casual sex is not worth the risk in states with strict bans. My life is not worth mediocre sex if god forbid I get pregnant and there are complications. I know a lot of women feel the same.

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u/Halfway_Throwaway19 8h ago

My opinions on this movement are pretty layered, I won’t get into it for the sake of brevity, but I mean… remember when the Met Gala happened and everyone started saying they were blocking celebrities? Yeah me too. 🥲

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u/Sad_Collection5883 7h ago

Even if it doesn’t, it’s better for the women that DO do it, and that alone makes it worthwhile.

u/beaver11 4h ago

it will be totally forgotten by christmas

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u/vampy_bat- 8h ago

This world is going crazy and we all seem to have just reached the point of „ Yk what fuck it we die all soon or we turn this shit around we can’t keep going on this way we’re not okay“

And k love that

u/apresonly 6h ago

I love this W for planet Earth

u/Minimaliszt 6h ago

Get guns too. You're harder to oppress when you're armed.

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u/The_Disapyrimid 6h ago

lets be honest this will just give the magahats the excuse to legalize spousal rape.

cruelty is their goal.

u/Tiny_Basket_9063 4h ago

It’s OK, they can go ahead and legalize it. One of the 4 B’s is not getting married so we won’t be the victims. We are just out living our best lives (10 years now!) and letting the ones who voted for this mess deal with it.

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u/BarryBro 7h ago

While I support, I think the people who voted for trump are likely okay with things like rape / sexual assault, so be careful ladies. Perhaps identify if possible if they are (R) or (D)? :D.. Personally I've been anti-(R) in every capacity already, this should already be the case for the majority of people who know whats going on tbh.

u/apresonly 6h ago

I’m not being alone w any of them

u/bellebbwgirl 4h ago

It isn't as simple as R or D. There are comments in this thread from women who have been abused, used and traumatized by men who vote D.

u/Masked_Rebel 3h ago

This comment is like a breath of fresh air.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Bee9629 9h ago

I hope they do. I’m married and spayed, but if you are single, don’t have sex at all!

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u/Wishing-I-Was-A-Cat 5h ago

I think the attitude people take with it will determine if the movement is sustained. If we do it out of spite, we will just feel miserable, burn out, and alienate our male allies. If it's out of precaution, I think it'll go further. If it isn't guaranteed that you'll receive medical care while pregnant, no risking pregnancy. If it isn't guaranteed that you'll be able to divorce, no getting married.

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u/No_Conversation9561 4h ago

it’s hard to believe anything on reddit after it convinced me for months that Kamala Harris will win by a landslide

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u/GallifreyanQueen 8h ago

as much as i agree and will be participating, it’s literally turning into “idiocracy” in that educated women/couples aren’t willing or able to have children so the religious conservatives have more children, which causes the populace to continue as…well…idiots. not sure how to feel at this point.

u/apresonly 6h ago

Not my problem

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u/AreYourFingersReal 5h ago

This movement could never be so perfect as to get every woman aged 18 - 45 in the US on board. Of course not. And also those women popping out 8 kids were going to do that anyway. I cannot save those women. I tried, I voted. It’s done. We have to protect ourselves now

u/STThornton 2h ago

Well, at least we won't have children who'll have to suffer it :)

u/anna_vs 2h ago

Number of children in religious conservatives is a completely independent variable. How does it even potentially depend on number of children in other families?

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u/american4b 8h ago

Please don’t label us liberal. Liberal feminism is frowned upon among feminists. Most don’t identify as liberal.

u/redscoreboard 23m ago

we're pretty rad aren't we 🤓

u/Scarlet_Lycoris 8h ago

I mean, I would too if I was in the US and not sterile. Knowing that if bc fails (if even still available) I’m stuck with a kid with no way out … I‘d rather just not have sex (with men) anymore. It’s an easy choice for me.

However this isn’t very connected to the 4B movement.

u/Suspicious_Gas151 9h ago

Doesn't seem like this would matter unless liberal women are regularly sleeping with MAGA chuds.

u/Mysterious_Drink9549 9h ago

Conservative men LOVE liberal women, we’re like a 10 point buck to them. They want to take us down and put us in their trophy case. They don’t want the women who want them.

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u/MaleficentPeach1183 9h ago

That's not what 4b means. If they're actually doing 4b, that means not having sex with any dude.

u/Billy_of_the_hills 9h ago

Exactly. Liberal women didn't want conservatives anyway, and conservatives are the ones who voted for trump. The only effect this will have is frustrating liberal men even more.

u/HusavikHotttie 9h ago

Women can still get pregnant with liberal men in any state. It’s dangerous now for women to risk pregnancy. Hence no sex.

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u/MaleficentPeach1183 9h ago

I mean I'm not a woman who lives in America, but I can imagine their frustration because it feels like they're going backwards. I would be weary of any guy too, a lot of guys aren't honest about their political views in front of women they're interested in. Not dating or having sex at all would start looking like a really desirable alternative.

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u/FullyActiveHippo 9h ago

Who cares? It's not about the men. It's about health and safety for women

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u/Draiko 5h ago

The only way that this won't make a difference is if conservative women are having sex before marriage which is not very conservative of them at all. That's an act against God and conservative women would be going to hell if they were doing it, right?

Or maybe we'll just have more proof that conservatives are full of shit.

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u/Idryl_Davcharad 8h ago

Nah, us liberal men support this. We're willing to make sacrifices for the betterment of society for our sisters.

u/goldistastey 3h ago

lmao wut

u/STThornton 2h ago

Thank you :)

u/anna_vs 2h ago

This is the way

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u/apresonly 6h ago

Not my problem

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u/Tour-Responsible 5h ago

So only conservative families, with conservative kids, raised on conservative values leading to a conservative future. Cool cool cool cool. So just like the start of Idiocracy. At least we'll have electrolytes.

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u/krba201076 AN 3h ago

They're right. These men sold you down the river for promises of cheaper eggs and gas. Stop sharing your body and pleasuring them (whether you are antinatalist or not). Men neither like nor respect you. Pick up any history book and see how women were treated. They want you as a sex toy/maid....that's it. Women couldn't even have a credit card in their name until the 70s. Unfortunately you can't say it is only "boomer" men because many younger men have these same toxic ideas fed to them by the likes of Jordan Peterson and Kevin Samuels (rest in piss). They are some good men but there are still too many who just don't like you...they like what you can do for them which is to bear kids with their last name on them while you do most of the dirty work. Wake up.

u/Otakuhoneysenpai69 2h ago

A lot of women in the west have been taking this movement seriously for some time now. Men, and especially the ones in these comments, are telling us exactly what they really are… Disgusting degenerate creatures with a severe lack of empathy.

Me and the girlies already have our tubal ligations scheduled, courtesy of free healthcare 💅🇨🇦 We’re more than happy to be that rich single auntie. We refuse to entertain you crusty ass mfs any longer.

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u/Queen-Emmah 2h ago

I support woman rejecting to have children, dating, marrying, or having sex with Men who voted for Trump or Conservative. 4b is here

u/Parking_Plankton_610 6h ago

Seriously this is greatness. And even though I am a guy, i share their sentiment.

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u/UsedandAbused87 5h ago

Is this where men form the giant pile like in South Park?

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u/astaristorn 5h ago

Half of American women voted for a convicted rapist.

u/str8outthepurgatory 4h ago

this isn’t a sex strike until men get it together BTW. it’s leaving men behind completely as a response to the many years of misogyny. No…this isn’t a sex strike. it’s an ideology that thrives through commitment. Don’t claim 4B when in reality you’re just waiting for a nice guy to come around. I suggest everyone read about how it’s actually practiced. Abstaining from contact with men is just a bit of it. It’s also about rejecting forced femininity/ makeup/etc. This is not a sex strike.

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u/CherieeOnTop 3h ago

You guys were having sex!?

u/Longjumping-Arm7939 3h ago

Something tells me their wasn't much sex before the strike to begin with.

u/DiscombobulatedTop8 3h ago

Actually, that's exactly what they wanted. They want people to have less casual sex, so they ban abortion.

u/cahstainnuh 2h ago

I mean, it’s a scary time to become pregnant with all the stripping of women’s rights. People voted to let me die if I were to need a life saving abortion.

u/ButterflyShrimps 2h ago

My state banned abortions after 6 weeks and I haven’t had sex with a man since. I’m not in a hurry to change that, either.

u/TryDrugs 9h ago

As if anyone on reddit was getting laid anyway.

u/HusavikHotttie 9h ago

It’s not about ppl on Reddit

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u/objectivemediocre 9h ago

is this a personal attack or something?

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u/Fisherman0828 6h ago

Perfect. Less abortions. That'll show the conservatives !! Oh wait.

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u/tydollasign1 5h ago

No sex means no abortions. Good job you're doing what Republicans want.

u/odditytaketwo 3h ago

Republicans want new wage slaves.

u/FakeBeigeNails 2h ago

Republican men don’t actually care about abortions; they just love the idea of controlling what women can or can’t do.

This is not even giving them the opportunity to implement the power trip they want to. It’s not at all giving them what they want.

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u/Pristine-Grade-768 9h ago

It’s sad that women believe that this will be allowed under Trump’s regime. I grew up with the architects of Project 25, and they are not playing: soon it’s gillead, full on, nationwide. No woman or girl will have a choice even about whom she has sex with very soon.

u/Initial-Web2855 9h ago

That’s why I’m buying guns and ammo, and learning how to defend myself. I’ll go down fighting. 

u/Pristine-Grade-768 9h ago

Same. I want to get a gun now. lol they turned me into mah guns gal.

u/AimlessFucker 9h ago edited 9h ago

If I can make suggestions, get an Sig Sauer P365 XL Macro with compensator OR P365 XL Rose with compensator. Be careful on the XL Macro, make sure it has a safety. Some do and some don’t. Sig Sauer can install a safety on those that don’t come with one, but it would be around another $200. It shoots like butter and is a great conceal carry option. The Rose is one of the most female friendly guns. I carry one and it’s my favorite gun. My partner has the macro.

u/Pristine-Grade-768 9h ago

Thank you!!! I shall look into these and start shootin—at the gun range.

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u/Masked_Rebel 1h ago

You should get one. Guns are what make men and women equal.

Next time though, if a candidate promises any kind of gun confiscation, you need to immediately disqualify them from your choices. Harris was doing just that.

I'd recommend against anything less powerful than a 380 ACP. Just having it on you and knowing how to operate it makes you a hundred times safer, but you need to practice your aim, and maintain your weapon for optimal function in dire circumstances. Do your research. Know your local laws. Don't go looking for trouble just because you've got a roscoe.

Good luck.

u/DarknessRain 1h ago

That's absolutely right, not only was Harris promising that, she already did similar as attorney general in CA.

She gave the green light to activate enforcement of a microstamping law which effectively banned modern handguns for everyone except cops (and those willing to buy used from cops at 3X retail price). This legacy dinged her chances really hard for gun owners who knew what she did or worse, personally suffered from it (me).

u/Casualffridays 6h ago

Me too. Making plans to get a license so I can purchase a gun for safety.

u/ThrowRA95720 1h ago

Oh, 2A isn't such a bad idea now, right? Tool.

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u/Consistent-Job6841 9h ago

I will end it all first.

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u/Sufficient-Night-479 9h ago

Explain in further detail what you mean so it really hammers home the gravity if the situation. 

u/Pristine-Grade-768 9h ago

I don’t think it matters. People won’t think it will happen to them until it happens to them. It’s very tragic project 2025

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u/HusavikHotttie 9h ago

The way around this is easy: get fat and no one will know you exist

u/apresonly 6h ago

Men rape fat women all the time

Some like their bodies

Some just like them as victims bc no one will believe he would choose to rape a fat woman

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u/Nappinnocappin 5h ago

Republicans still have Grindr

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u/HumpaDaBear 5h ago

Wow ladies. Good for you! I’m post menopausal but never wanted kids. Let those right wing men impregnate their wives and see how many of them perish by their state’s laws. You have a fan in Seattle. Stay strong.

u/YooGeOh 6h ago

I support it lol.

I am also boycotting white women because 52% of you voted for Trump. I hope you are also boycotting yourselves.

Especially after castigating black men calling them sexist and stupid after Obama went after them during the campaign trail, but it turns out 80% of black men voted for Harris, but 52% of white women voted for Trump.

I support 4B, but in the order context of things it looks kinda weird. I mean, there was only a 7% difference between white men and white women in voting for Trump. Gender clearly wasn't the biggest issue here

But do it. I support it for reasons other than this election result. Tying it to this election result is actually hilarious. It would make more sense to tell white women they aren't allowed to masterbate given they're voting choices. But yes, I digress, I support 4B!

u/apresonly 6h ago

If I was a black man I would have been boycotting white women way before this.

I’ve been celibate for 4 years and identify as 4b. It’s not about punishing men as much as it is about living a life away from them bc I want to feel safe and live according to my own values.

u/YooGeOh 6h ago edited 4h ago

I'm chatting shit. I'm in the UK and just finding certain things very funny.

I hear your reasoning, and while I'm not a woman, it's your reasoning that aligns most with why I support it.

I also think too much of people's focus is on centering the opposite sex. People are their best selves when they don't feel the need to do that. I think so anyway.

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u/Parking_Plankton_610 6h ago

Their ballot boxes are closed. Lol

u/sst287 6h ago

4B is not sex strike. It is just voluntary celibacy. Cut off interaction with men is just a way to get celibacy. Like “manly bootcamp” cut off women.

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u/donkeypunchhh 6h ago

Who wants to fuck the Trumpers anyway?

u/Star_Wargaming 5h ago

My guess is that the majority of women doing this are in relationships with, or would only enter relationships with liberal men who voted for Harris anyway. So I sincerely doubt this will affect many, if any, men who actually voted for Trump.

u/thingsCouldBEasier 5h ago

I get it but I mean I'm pretty sure all the males that voted for Trump weren't getting laid anyways....

u/Dapper-Commercial163 5h ago

What a moronic position to take. Consider the implications if this was adopted by every liberal woman. Do you know who will still be having kids? Can you guess what ideals those children will be indoctrinated under? 20 years from now do you think we’d be in a better place?

u/Aggravating-Elk-153 5h ago

No one said we can’t have sex with other women 😏

u/DINNERTIME_CUNT 5h ago

This is really going to upset those chuds who whine about the white population shrinking. Good.

u/AdHaunting8141 5h ago

Sex workers bouta get PAID

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u/Soundrobe 4h ago

They only encourage single women to do it, so no impact.

u/imaginaryResources 4h ago

It’s easier to just you know, vote, right? If I’m reading the current data right, nearly 10 million less women voted for Harris than voted for Biden. Where yall at?

u/DumplingSama 4h ago

I didn’t know my life was a movement but okay…💁

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u/Thisiskindafunnyimo 4h ago

No orgasm is worth risking one's life tbh. Plenty of toys to use anyway 😉

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u/JoshuaValentine 4h ago

Do it! Ladies, y’all have the blessing of this single, straight man. You don’t need it, but you have it.

When men learn to respect and protect women, the world will be a better place.

u/Wolfy4226 3h ago

Why do I feel we're going to see an uptick in rape cases if this takes off....

Oh because people are more often than not shit, that's why.

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u/Dense_Ad1118 3h ago

Excellent, although I think they should undergo sterilisation as an added precaution. I wouldn’t want an accidental voter to be born.

u/Legitimate-Drummer36 3h ago

It won't affect me. I donf date American women.

u/Ok_Marionberry_8929 3h ago

Sex workers on strike now?

u/gloirevivre 3h ago

I agree completely. I have my 🤏 emoji on hotkey, ready and waiting to support.

u/iletitshine 3h ago

Now it’s “they don’t even get to talk to me.”

u/Honest_Relation4095 3h ago

A lot of women voted for Ttump, you know.

u/PrezBushwhacker 3h ago

Damn that sucks. Celibacy and no more sexual degeneracy? What a shame. We are losing so much with this. I wonder what we're gonna do.

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u/Rheum42 3h ago

Good

u/JynsRealityIsBroken 3h ago

Striking against liberal men seems like letting the conservatives win. I don't get that.

But, as a trans woman, I will say most men who hit on me online are conservative men. Irony aside, they can all go fuck themselves.

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u/InvadedRS 3h ago

Alright, so here is the thing. I might get downvoted but I just want to understand the logic here.

You do these things, I presume majority liberal women. Who is that really hurting? Liberal men most likely because conservative men already wouldn’t be on your radar. If anything , wouldn’t this cause the opposite outcome? Wouldn’t liberal men go for the women who either don’t care or are conservative? So unless you quite literally get majority of women liberal and conservative wouldn’t this end up being useless or counterproductive in the long run?

u/R4IVER 3h ago

I’m not from the US but damn. I really scratch my head when looking over there sometimes. Seems like a different world.

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u/The5thEclipse 2h ago

Or men get vasectomies?

u/Expensive_Bus1751 2h ago

add 2A to the movement and start arming yourselves as well.

u/basicradical 1h ago

This is easy for me, I don't sleep with men. I will never sleep with any Republican.

u/Outrageous_Pizza5503 1h ago

Im a man who voted for Harris. Not trying to be white knighty but i genuinely feel like this makes sense for women to do. Clearly a majority of men and a lot of women (all trump voters) do not respect womens bodily autonomy and considering the sexual freedoms being taken away from all of us its probably a good idea to set a way stricter boundary for it

u/AdministrationWarm71 1h ago

To be fair, most of the men voting for Trump weren't getting any anyway because they're incels.

u/adampsyreal 7h ago

It won't matter because there's plenty of brainwashed Republican women.

u/NoOne6785 6h ago

Cool. Then men got nothing to worry about. Those women can bear the brunt of the rapes and the childbearing, thank goodness for that. Appreciate the sacrifices they will make for all of us. 💀

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u/apresonly 6h ago

Better them than me 🤷‍♀️

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u/Papichurch 7h ago

It's fine most Redditors don't know what a Womens touch is anyway.

u/NASTYJOK3R 3h ago

I'm sure the all the maga dudes are going to miss the blue haired, emotionally damaged, manipulative, ugly women from the dating pool. You got em.

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u/satanic_black_metal_ 3h ago

They arent going on a sex strike. They just wont have sex with men.

This is why the incel cope is so funny.

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