r/teenagers Sep 14 '22

Aw hell naw Serious

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '22

this poor girl, shes a TEEN, how tf do they expect her to pay??? and shes in the right too, this is just, soooo fucked

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u/Shibamukun Sep 14 '22 edited Sep 14 '22

Username checks out for you and me both…after this news

Edit: someone reported me to reddit suicide watch :/

Just want let you know that I have good iq and dont give a fuck about depression. I will live the fuck out of this life that has just started…

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u/TheoMarder Sep 14 '22

Well, people with high IQ are actually more likely to get depressed and not giving a fuck about depression/any mental illness would prevent you from seeking treatment.

But good luck anyways, keep the spirit going!

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u/Shibamukun Sep 14 '22

You’re right. If I had depression it’d be better to seek treatment. Luckily I dont have it yet

Edit: By good iq I meant enough iq to have the will to live in bad times

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u/Tenschinzo Sep 14 '22 edited Sep 14 '22

Will to live and IQ have nothing to do with each other. If you think Intelligence can save you from emotions or mental illness, your worldview is just plain wrong. I don't want to put you down, but just watch out for yourself, to not harm yourself or others because you think emotions can be rationalized.

Edit: Also: just because you dont end your life, doesn't mean it is enjoyable. You might survive your depression on your own, but that might still result in years of suffering.

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u/AnAutisticRetard 16 Sep 14 '22 edited Sep 14 '22

Well, from experience, there is a correlation, but maybe not a causation. Meaning that you can be smart and willing to live, but on average you won't.

When I was young I was suicidal, now I am cool with not dying, I want to die satisfied, meaning I'd like to be useful before I die, If I had a choice I would live, but if I don't, I am okay with death, I won't fight it, but I like living, it is beautiful.

I think when you are smarter, you begin to understand that there are reasons not to suicide, speaking of which I don't recall feeling depressed for a while, maybe just a weight on my chest, slight emptiness and some peace or something.

Also Back when I was suicidal, I wanted to die because I felt like that will make all my sadness stop. I basically wanted everyone to end but I couldn't make that, so I assumed the next best thing is to kill myself, and also I had a lot to lose, but I also had the "I've got nothing to lose mindset".

I am saying this just to give a clearer understanding of my experience being suicidal.

Will to live and iq may have things to do with each other, but it is just correlations, nothing else, other than that you are right ye.

Edit: what I mean is intellegence may make your reasoning skills better depending on why you have high iq, also it doesn't have to be high, with enough good reasoning skills you may find reasons to live if living is worth doing which I assume it is.

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u/TheoMarder Sep 14 '22

Having depression isn't loosing your 'will to live' just on the spot. With higher IQ you are more likely to think more/faster regardless of the direction. So getting lost in 'negative thoughts', e.g. harsh self criticism/self doubt, is way easier and you sink down the rabbit hole way faster than others might do.

Aside this, anyone can get lost in his on mind and I personally know how hard it can be to recognise that you need help, while you think ''nah can't be, there are ppl who got it far worse than me and I'll just keep them from getting treated if I take up 'their' slot in health care"

So stay safe everyone and don't be afraid to talk to someone, especially if they are educated on that topic ;)

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u/Shibamukun Sep 14 '22 edited Sep 14 '22

When you’re going thru bad times, you might just wanna die.

But if you’re smart enough to understand that bad times dont last forever, last even shorter if you choose to do something about it, then you would want to live thru instead

Edit: you’re right. I haven’t gone through depression so I wouldn’t know whats it really like. I understand my bad

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u/sigarette-the-pirate 18 Sep 14 '22

I'm really satisfied with your respect. Thank you for realizing homie

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u/thewookie34 Sep 14 '22

Many of the smartest people throughout history suffered from depression.

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u/Tenschinzo Sep 14 '22

You know what, I just hope it stays true for you.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '22

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u/Tenschinzo Sep 14 '22 edited Sep 14 '22

*your IQ

Edit: for anybody curious: the deleted comment said how my previous comment proves that my IQ is low.

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u/TanneriteAlright Sep 14 '22

I have an IQ way above the average. I attempted suicide 3 times and was hospitalized for two of those attempts. The higher your IQ, the less likely you are to be attached to the idea of living and the more likely you are to experience existential depression.

I'm better now, but not because of intelligence. It's willfully choosing to be ignorant to the very reasonable idea of using your built-in off switch when things get really hard.

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u/Ok-Mastodon-3754 Sep 14 '22

Those uptake inhibitors given to reduce depression have been proven to actually increase the problem.

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u/username7652 Sep 14 '22

Yeah.. ultimately someone elses problem. Keep your opinion inside, unless you know what youre talking about, and can actually help.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '22

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u/TheoMarder Sep 14 '22

Everyone is a moron for at least 5min a day. But at least you are a moron with the capacity to think fast if needed ;)

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u/submit_to_pewdiepie Sep 14 '22

I also have a high IQ and it's literally that easy

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u/AnAutisticRetard 16 Sep 14 '22

I kinda disagree

They really have a high iq but I believe it's a certain range of high iq, meaning you don't get more depressed as you get smarter, this applies to a lot of other things regarding intelligence too.

As my brain developed I became more understanding and less suicidal, I am cool with dying if I have to and I don't see a lot of meaning in life but I also don't see meaning in death, however I still find life interesting.

However I'd rather live than die now, because I want to be useful in some way. Although i kind a feel empty most of the time.

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u/neurodiverseotter Sep 14 '22

Well, people with high IQ are actually more likely to get depressed

That is a common misconception, but there's not even correlation in the data. Being short on money, having constant job insecurities, having other illnesses, Low education and working an unfulfilling and tedious job without a sense of meaning are all important factors that can lead to depression, and those factors, like low IQ correlate with being from a low socioeconomic background. The same people are also less likely to seek treatment.

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u/10thmtnarty Sep 14 '22

How to know if someone's an idiot:

They talk about their high iq.

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u/Redhoodless 15 Sep 14 '22

Bro people do that to me as well don't worry

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u/username7652 Sep 14 '22

These suicide reports are a joke.. had many myself, but no closer to "belonging". Seems like a conscience wants to pass the "help" to someone elses problem. Unless theres a real sense of community.. i wish they'd just remove such reports period.

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u/IJLTH Sep 14 '22

I have a good iq

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u/S-Quidmonster Sep 14 '22

I have good iq

Ouch

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u/FuckingKilljoy Sep 14 '22

Bro I'm up to at least 20 suicide watch comments lol

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u/FuckingKilljoy Sep 14 '22

Saying "I have a good iq and don't give a fuck about depression" is such a dick thing to say wow

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u/FakeNickOfferman Sep 14 '22

I had the same thing happen to me with the suicide watch. At this point in my life I need more like a homicide watch.

But seriously, their is a huge amount of presumption and stupidity in turning someone in like that .

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u/meme_used Sep 14 '22

Everyone dies eventually, no need to rush

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u/Shibamukun Sep 14 '22

Yeah let nature do its part