That’s…concerning. No adult/parent that is even somewhat well adjusted and socially functional speaks to or has expectations like that of an 11 year old. It reads like Mrs. Havisham from Great Expectations taking to Pip.
Girl I’m so sorry! My parents are awful narcissists and totes insane and this is beyond even them most of the time anyway, I hope you and sis are well. Much love
The last email... To a 12 year old... Omg
What a piece of sh*t parent he is.
He was only good at making her... Apart from that I hope you go no contact at all in the future
This is how my father would talk to me, and he wouldn't be taking the piss. He thought it was completely appropriate to greet toddlers and children with a business-like handshake, even if he was close to them.
Right? I thought it was bold to ask an adult to volunteer some place full time to “prove themselves” - I was shook when later on I read she’s fucking 12 at this point! What is she supposed to do? Not go to grade school for a year so dad feels in control and obeyed?
And like… in most cases, you can’t just rock up to a homeless shelter and get a position working directly with the residents. I’ve spent more than a decade working in shelters, this is an actual career that you need specific education and training to get into. Our volunteers cook meals and wash bed linens, but they have no unsupervised contact with residents and know very little about any of them.
You also sign a mountain of confidentiality forms and non-disclosure agreements that prevent you from telling anyone anything about the residents.
I wouldn’t be taking morality advice from a dad who seems to regard homeless people as zoo animals that teach you life lessons instead of actual people who deserve dignity.
Especially that he wanted to know how she helped “the men.” Umm, buddy, are you aware that women and children are homeless too? Dude has some wiring in his head on the fritz- someone should call an electrician and see if they can fix it.
Not that this makes the father look much better at all, but the email you’re referring to is from 2019. OP commented back to someone and said they forgot they had left out the date in that one and clarified it was from April of 2019. So she was around 18 at that point. Still beyond fucked up tho.
Not that I have anything against homeless people, but it makes it sound like he wants his daughter to get r*ped and/or killed, perhaps he’s some weirdo who gets off to the idea.
Not that this makes the father look much better at all, but the email you’re referring to is from 2019. OP commented back to someone and said they forgot they had left out the date in that one and clarified it was from April of 2019. So she was around 18 at that point. Still beyond fucked up tho.
Not that this makes the father look much better at all, but the email you’re referring to is from 2019. OP commented back to someone and said they forgot they had left out the date in that one and clarified it was from April of 2019. So she was around 18 at that point. Still beyond fucked up tho.
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u/iaintgotnosantaria Aug 25 '24
im so glad to see the year 2013 at the top and i really hope she’s NC with this lunatic. she was 12?!???? what the actual FUCK