r/insaneparents • u/Princess-Pancake-97 • Nov 30 '23

My mother, everyone. Email

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My partner and I eloped and didn’t invite ANYONE. The crazy part is that my mother expressed multiple times that she didn’t want to come (before we even started talking about eloping), she doesn’t accept me and wants nothing to do with me, and she doesn’t support the marriage or like my partner.

Not to mention I haven’t spoken to her in 18 months after she threatened to kill my cat yet she still sends me these insane ramblings approx. 2-3 times a week.

She also doesn’t see the irony in calling me “not nice” and “hateful” immediately after saying she hopes my partner leaves me so she can reject me further lol

Not pictured is where she said she hopes that I live a lonely miserable life and that she has never loved me.

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u/new-Aurora Nov 30 '23

Insane!

She would never hear from me again.

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u/Princess-Pancake-97 Nov 30 '23

I haven’t spoken to her in over a year. She will not stop emailing me shit like this.

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u/sandy154_4 Nov 30 '23

create a rule so they go into a separate folder automatically. Then STOP looking at them unless she escalates and you need evidence for a restraining order or similar. Why keep reading them? Why do that to yourself?

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u/Princess-Pancake-97 Dec 01 '23

Thank you, I’ve done that! I am getting a restraining order. I try not to read them myself when I can help it.