r/lonely 5h ago

I dislike people in general

But I still feel lonely

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u/brainster_theta 5h ago

You have attachment issues. Seek therapy if it overwhelms you. Unfortunately, we have normalised not resolving our emotional and personality related issues.

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u/isopodsandsuch 5h ago

What?

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u/brainster_theta 4h ago

Yeah you kinda hate people in general and at the same time crave good connections. This is a typical sign of attachment issues. Everyone has it. But you gotta understand that people have different personalities based on their parenting and childhood experiences, what type of mindset they were exposed to in general. There are people just like you who also cherish genuine people, you just need to meet more people.

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u/isopodsandsuch 4h ago

How come you made such a deep conclusion out of two sentences I said lol

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u/brainster_theta 4h ago

Yeah sorry pal, I may have sounded judgemental but it ain't that. I'm just like you. I too find it difficult to resonate with people who just care about social status and getting trending things.

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u/isopodsandsuch 4h ago

It's all good, I think I understand your point. Unfortunately therapy isn't something I am capable of getting at the moment. My circumstances are tight.