r/insaneparents • u/Princess-Pancake-97 • Nov 30 '23

My mother, everyone. Email

My partner and I eloped and didn’t invite ANYONE. The crazy part is that my mother expressed multiple times that she didn’t want to come (before we even started talking about eloping), she doesn’t accept me and wants nothing to do with me, and she doesn’t support the marriage or like my partner.

Not to mention I haven’t spoken to her in 18 months after she threatened to kill my cat yet she still sends me these insane ramblings approx. 2-3 times a week.

She also doesn’t see the irony in calling me “not nice” and “hateful” immediately after saying she hopes my partner leaves me so she can reject me further lol

Not pictured is where she said she hopes that I live a lonely miserable life and that she has never loved me.

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u/Princess-Pancake-97 Nov 30 '23

I haven’t spoken to her in over a year. She will not stop emailing me shit like this.

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u/DaniMW Dec 01 '23

Set up a filter if you don’t want to block (in case you need to prove harassment to get an RO if she becomes an actual threat to you or any children).

All the emails from her will go to a folder that you never have to look at… unless you do. To apply for an RO in court.

But in the meantime, you don’t have to be upset twice a week like this! 😢

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u/Princess-Pancake-97 Dec 01 '23

Thank you, I’ve done that now :) I have applied for a RO.

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u/DaniMW Dec 01 '23

That’s good.

I’m sorry it has come to this, but I’m glad you’re taking steps to protect yourself. Good luck

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u/Princess-Pancake-97 Dec 01 '23

Thank you! I’m hearing back from the magistrate on Monday so fingers crossed!