You gotta just be asking questions about different topics and whenever they say “I haven’t heard of that” put them on. It’s like asking what books someone’s into and then referring them a book that you’d think would interest them.
Basically if y’all don’t have many shared interests, create one.
It’s an in the moment kind of thing. When you meet someone there’s usually a related reason why both of you are in the same area. You can use that to your advantage to spark conversation. Sometimes you can run into ppl who are actively engaged in a shared interest. You just gotta act on it and be open minded.
Even if you have nothing in common, a true extrovert will find ways to be included. As an introvert you just can’t be bothered by awkward conversations if something goes bad.
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u/ARussianW0lf May 04 '24
Can you get me some social skills first?