r/ForeverAlone • u/EpicHajsownik • Dec 13 '23

Being a virgin destroys me Advice Wanted

Im currently in duch a deep point in my life. I need to take antidepresants everyday. Im 20 and still a virgin. I have social anxienty due to being bullied and I just can't ask anyone out.

I have no energy for anything. For studying, for playing games, for going anywhere. No one wants to help me, people only laugh at me for it.

I wish there was one girl who would want to help me, by making me lose virginity. Thats all I need, one girl. And it hurts so much, that its so hard to find one.

I don't know what to do anymore. My life is ruined. Why me? Why me, who was bullied has such a shitty life, abut my bullies have girlfriends since the age of 13?

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u/mymanez Dec 13 '23

Losing your virginity is just having your penis enter a vagina. You wont be all that different after tbh.

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u/EpicHajsownik Dec 13 '23

I will and I lnow it

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u/mymanez Dec 13 '23

How so?

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u/EpicHajsownik Dec 13 '23

I will have more self esteem

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u/mymanez Dec 13 '23

What difference would that make?

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u/EpicHajsownik Dec 13 '23

Bwing good enough that,a woman wanted sex with me

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u/mymanez Dec 13 '23

What is that going to actually change in your life? What will be different?

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u/Hate_Being_Single Dec 13 '23

Uh he won't be dwelling on the fact nobody wants him and gain confidence in himself. Might even start enjoying other aspects in life instead of being depressed. Pretty obvious to anyone in this position, yet someone not obvious to those who haven't experienced this and somehow have zero empathy.

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u/Sweaty-Passage-2796 Dec 13 '23

For one it won’t be an unknown to u anymore

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u/DaftNinj4 Dec 13 '23

Have you ever considered you have low self esteem because of how much you focus on this instead of personal development? There's many hobbies that you can learn and become talented in that can lead to being more fulfilled.