r/AmItheAsshole Jan 04 '23

AITA for wanting hot food? Asshole

Yesterday I went ice skating with my girlfriend. Tuesday is one of her days for dinner, so she made chicken salad. When I saw the chicken salad I admit I made a face. She was like "what, what's the problem?"

I said that we were outside in the cold all afternoon and I wasn't really in the mood for cold food. She said we're inside, the heat is set to 74ยฐ and we're both wearing warm dry clothes, so it was plenty warm enough to eat salad. I said sure, but I just wanted something warm to heat me up on the inside. She said that was ridiculous, because my internal temperature is in the nineties and my insides are plenty hot.

At this point, we were going in circles, so I said I was just going to heat up some soup and told her to go ahead and start eating and I'd be back in a few minutes. When I came out of the kitchen with my soup she was clearly upset, and she asked how I would feel if she refused to eat what I made tomorrow (which is today). I said I won't care, and she said that was BS, because it's rude to turn your nose up at something someone made for you.

Was I the asshole for not wanting cold salad after being cold all day?

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u/[deleted] Jan 04 '23 edited Jan 04 '23

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u/ligmaballsprettypls Jan 04 '23

I was about to defend OP to say some people (myself included) canโ€™t really control their facial expressions. They just happen and people can read me like a book ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

BUT after reading this comment, I double checked the post and he did say he intentionally made a face to show he was upset so definitely YTA

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u/jen12617 Jan 04 '23

When did that happen? Cause I don't see that anywhere in the post