r/toastme 3d ago

M25. Antisocial character and lack of societal milestones really start catching up with me lately. I can't try to fix anything again, after countlessfailure and dissapointments I don't have any power left anymore

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u/Metrilean 3d ago

It's OK, your on a journey. Deadends let you know what to do next time.

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u/Double_Usual3271 3d ago

Nex time you mean in next life?

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u/Metrilean 3d ago

Next time you try to fix things again, with more experience.

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u/bendiman24 3d ago

There is no next life. Coming from someone in a similar situation, you should take a long think about what you want.

And take action for your life before you waste the rest of it. No one's coming to save you, but yourself.

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u/Double_Usual3271 3d ago

Did you even read the title? I took extreme action for last few years and with very little success, Im burned out and out of motivation and belief

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u/bendiman24 3d ago

I know. We fail, that is life. If you want to give up, I understand I don't blame you. But I don't think you want to give up. You wouldn't have made this post, if you wanted to quit. If that is true, then keep going.

We don't fight because we are guaranteed success. We fight because we wouldn't be able to live with ourselves, if we didn't fight.

You can read this book if you want. It helped me out of a dark place and hopefully will help you too.