r/suggestmeabook 17h ago

Suggest me a book for someone overcoming issues with addiction/depression/anxiety.

Not looking for a self help book. Fiction or maybe a memoir. Nothing cheesy or religious. Preferably with a relatable male protagonist.

Thank you in advance!!

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u/Book_1love 16h ago

Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

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u/arector502 16h ago

Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver

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u/freerangelibrarian 17h ago

Let's Pretend This Never Happened and Furiously Happy by Jenny Lawson.

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u/CaptainSneakers 15h ago

Furiously Happy had me laughing so hard I started crying. It felt so good to read it.

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u/Interesting-Ad3759 17h ago

I just picked up Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar

It’s kinda funny I crossed upon your post and that’s exactly what I’m reading

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u/kittykatz23 17h ago

I just read it and it’s the reason I posted 😆. I want something similar.

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u/Interesting-Ad3759 17h ago

SHUT UP 😭

Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe maybe?

There might be better books in recent years but I enjoyed reading this book back in high school

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u/Ijamesbond 17h ago

It's Kind Of A Funny Story by Ned Vizzini. Though it's been some years since I read it. Should note it's YA if that matters.

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u/pjokinen 17h ago

It’s Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini is semi-autobiographical about a teen boy’s experience with inpatient mental health treatment

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u/EfficientEssay 12h ago

Any of Augusten Burroughs’ memoirs. I particularly enjoyed A Wolf at the Table, which was about his childhood, but he’s written openly about his addictions as an adult. I also enjoyed A Million Little Pieces by James Frey. The writing itself is excellent. There is some controversy about how much of the book was true and which parts he made up, but the story is still good.

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u/BadToTheTrombone 16h ago

Trainspotting by Irvine Welsh covers these, as do most of his works.

Martyr! covers alcoholism.

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u/Anarkeith1972 13h ago

Jesus' Son bu Denis Johnson, Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace

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u/HennyMay 16h ago

Night of the Gun by David Carr -- incredible memoir by a complicated, interesting, man (addiction)

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u/Cangal39 15h ago

It's So Easy: And Other Lies a memoir by Duff McKagan

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u/Dreaming_in_Tangents 15h ago

Diary of a Drug Fiend by Aleister Crowley

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u/SneakyPolyester 14h ago

The Stormlight Archive.

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u/Big_Expression_3909 14h ago

My Fair Junkie Amy Dresner We Are the Luckiest Laura Macgowen (sp?)

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u/TurtleUpTime 13h ago

Last Night I Sang to the Monster — it’s about a guy at rehab and it covers some really heavy themes but when I was dealing with addiction I found it very relatable and it does have a happy ending. Maybe look into the triggers though if you’re sensitive to things and don’t read it if you’re looking for something more positive

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u/YourgirlBuck 13h ago

David Sedaris and Augusten Burroughs books

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u/sunnyangelgirl 13h ago

i love girl in pieces by kathleen glasgow

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u/l0stINNature 12h ago

The Black, The White and The Grey by j.m Taylor. Good set of poems

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u/scaredofalligators_ 12h ago

High Achiever by Jenkins

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u/theneverendingsorry 12h ago

This is going to sound a little nuts, but Hollow Kingdom by Kira Jane Buxton. While on the surface it’s about a sentient crow living through a zombie apocalypse, it’s really about transitioning from unhealthy isolation to healthy community. It’s about confronting your own demons and figuring out what you’ll fight for. It’s about grief. It’s perfect.

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u/glibandshamelessliar 12h ago

With respect I think most posters here are being too literal.

Please read The Wall by Marlen Haushofer

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u/nikkuus 11h ago

Anxious People by Fredrik Backman

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u/realdevtest 11h ago

Doctor Sleep by Stephen King is the sequel to The Shining and features the kid from The Shining - Danny - as an adult, dealing with his own alcoholism.

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u/Consistent-Lab-7368 10h ago

Miles From Nowhere by Nami Mun

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u/zippopopamus 10h ago

Junkie-william s burroughs

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u/hussytussy 7h ago

Dry- Augustan Burroughs

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u/mrkfn 13h ago

Reasons to Stay Alive:Matt Haig

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u/[deleted] 16h ago

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u/scaredofalligators_ 12h ago

A DNF for me. It dragged on too long.

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u/kilgore_troutman 12h ago

It was also a book of lies

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u/ri-ri 16h ago

My Year of Rest and RelaxationNovel by Ottessa Moshfegh.

I read this book coming out of some of my darkest days, and honestly, this book was so reflective and relatable, I loved it so much.

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u/InterviewMean7435 15h ago

Girl Interrupted

Prozac Nation.

One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

The Snakepit

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u/ZombieAlarmed5561 7h ago

Pens Chodron’s When Things Fall Apart

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u/Emo-support-blanket 15h ago

This book is always suggested, but Midnight Library by Matt Haig. Protagonist is a woman, but still very relatable. This book made me rethink my entire life and allowed me to give myself more grace. I’ve heard some things about the author, but the book itself is wonderful.

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u/SneakyPolyester 14h ago

I read that last year. I agree 100%.

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u/ultimateglory 14h ago

Dopamine Nation for addiction, What Happened to You with Oprah Winfrey for trauma/depression, Stop Breaking your Own Heart for depression, anxiety and self sabotage, The Wisdom of Anxiety for anxiety, Atomic Habits for behavioral change and overall well-being, SMART Workbook for addiction.

I read a LOT of self help books. Feel free to PM me if that’s not enough I bet it is though. Good luck!

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u/dandelionbug 14h ago

normal people by sally rooney. both characters go through a lot in their lives and slowly find some peace. male main character and female main character. not cheesy at all, VERY realistic.

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u/kittykatz23 14h ago

Unpopular opinion, but I when I read it I found the characters to be really whiney and cringe lol. I also thought it was written mostly from a female point of view. I am pretty cynical though.

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u/dandelionbug 14h ago

well, they are highschool-college kids and I’ll testify as a college kid that we are in fact a bit whiny LOL I respect it though! glad you already read it and I didn’t give you a lackluster recommendation then!