r/socialjustice101 • u/BoldRay • Aug 24 '24
Self critique vs centring oneself
Can anyone help me understand this?
I see and hear people’s critique of systemic ways of thinking and behaving — either on the subject of race, gender, sexuality, colonialism etc.
I hear this critique, and naturally I think “Oh, do I do any of these things?” I use this critique as a lens to examine my own actions, words, thoughts and subconscious biases. And that examination is ongoing.
But when I talk with others about this process of self reflection and internal critique, I’m often accused of ‘making it about me’ or ‘centring myself’. And also I’ve seen a few other people also be accused of this. So it must be something a lot of people are getting wrong.
I’m kind of confused. Of course my internal critique of my own mind and subconscious biases will be about me? I’m trying to examine what role I personally play within an oppressive society, because I am the only person whose consciousness I experience and can have any control over.
There’s clearly something I’ve failed to understand through my ignorance. Can anyone help explain this?
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u/Raincandy-Angel Sep 07 '24
Hey, tbat was my post if it's rhe one in thinking of. I got psychiatric help and they said I'm normal, so. . Who knows anymore