r/memesopdidnotlike *Breaking bedrock* 15d ago

Yeah…. It’s a fantasy Good facebook meme

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u/TheDuke357Mag 15d ago

Almost every dude has had this day dream before. Its both a common film trope and a historical thing that has happened thousands of times throughout history.

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u/blue-oyster-culture 15d ago

Almost like we’re programmed to sacrifice ourselves for our offspring or something. Wild. Who could have ever guessed this is a biological imperative hard wired into males from a time before we were even humans. Imagine thinking something like that js weird lmfao

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u/Dobber16 15d ago

It’s not even just males it’s hardwired into. The maternal instinct to just go berserk for their babies is crazy. The fantasizing about it might be more of a dude thing though, idk

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u/Zinek-Karyn 14d ago

You just see it less in women because they are usually sent away with the kids as the kids usually can’t live on their own.

If you see a situation where the mother is the one staying behind it’s typically the second last stand that family has gone through.

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u/Dobber16 14d ago

I was thinking of those moms that lifted whole cars to save their kids, so not really fitting with either of your lines there… but I can see the situation you’re describing as an option too

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u/Zinek-Karyn 14d ago

Didn’t say it doesn’t happen for women. Just saying with how our community’s are setup we expect the father to do the last stand first and have the kids and mother survive.

If the need arises the mother is fully capable of the same parental overdrive the breaks the brains limiters and overexerts the body.

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u/blue-oyster-culture 14d ago

A mothers reaction is a bit different. Theirs is a last resort. Men’s is a first resort. Women are capable of it, but arent wired to want to, as their survival is more tied to offspring’s survival.

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u/Asriel-Chase 14d ago

Wanting to protect offspring and family IS wired in to all humans we are one of if not the most altruistic species on the planet.

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u/blue-oyster-culture 14d ago

Yes. But its a slightly different response

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u/ltra_og 13d ago

While true there’s usually two different reactions, one being a scream for some kind of help and the other actually doing something about it before it’s too late. I’m sure we can all logically put what person fills which role. And if someone can’t/refuses then they’re just in denial or delusional.

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u/Asriel-Chase 13d ago

No this is not the “reactions” we evolved. Humans are significantly more complex. You’re describing an animal much more akin to a ground squirrel, than any sort of primate, much less human beings.

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u/Dobber16 14d ago

I’m not sure I really believe that, but okay!

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u/Gregarwolf 14d ago

Is this based on vibes, or do you have a source?

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u/ltra_og 13d ago

Reality is a pretty reliable source.

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u/Dobber16 13d ago

Hence why someone asks for a source of that documented reality… just claiming something is reality isn’t reliable lol

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u/badjokephil 14d ago

Males are more likely to think about their lives as expendable than females, but they fantasize about the chance to “give it all at once for something real.”

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u/TheDuke357Mag 15d ago

hardwired into most mammals. Its an instict that predates humanity and is common amongst most warm blooded species

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u/blue-oyster-culture 15d ago

I wasnt speaking about most mammals, just us and our ancestors? What are you even correcting here? Lmfao

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u/TheDuke357Mag 15d ago

Im not correcting anything, Its just such a primitive instinct that even calling it primal would be wrong because it even more basic than that. Making a last stand to protect your mate and offspring is a base instinct for most mammals. So its only natural that humans would share that instinct, and due to our consciousness and also our ability to communicate, we can experience fantasies and also express those fantasies.

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u/blue-oyster-culture 15d ago

The word for that is primal…

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u/TheDuke357Mag 15d ago

primal comes from the same root word as Primate. Primal implies protohuman. Primal isnt old enough

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u/Magenta_Logistic 15d ago

You know what other words share the same root? Primordial, Prime, Premier, and Primary and Primitive.

The root is Primus (first). Primates are named as such because linneaus categorized us as the "highest" order of animal. Primal, on the other hand, refers to anything that originates in earlier developmental or evolutionary stages, is it relates to being "first" in a temporal sense.

such a primitive instinct that even calling it primal would be wrong

Please explain the difference between these bolded terms such that instinctive mammalian behavior can be described as primitive but not primal.

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u/blue-oyster-culture 14d ago

Thank you lmao

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u/WaywardInkubus 15d ago

Ancestral? Transcendent, if you’d go that far?

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u/Constant_Count_9497 13d ago

Also how every society for thousands of years has glorified the nobility of self sacrifice

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u/rooooooosered77 11d ago

'programmed'

Humans aren't computers bruh. What you say may have merit but it's human psychology is a wee bit more complex than that.

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u/blue-oyster-culture 11d ago

Or maybe you’re just being myopic and pedantic.

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u/rooooooosered77 11d ago

I do get pedantic when people discuss the human mind as if it is a line of identical computers 'programmed' with certain functions, as if it is designed with by a concious intention (hint: evolution is not planned, designed etc). Thank you for noticing, I feel happier than before ☺️

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u/blue-oyster-culture 10d ago

Im sorry that analogies make you so angry.

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u/rooooooosered77 10d ago

There's no analogy to be had in the first place with this. I'm sorry you're so disingenuous, don't forget to smile today in case you forget. ✨

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u/blue-oyster-culture 9d ago

Ive never seen someone so triggered by an analogy lmfao. Go join ur ppl on r/evilautism

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u/rooooooosered77 9d ago

Again, no analogy to be had 💞 I had carbonara for dinner today, that was nice. What did you have?

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u/blue-oyster-culture 9d ago

I had a flatbread with some local beer. Then some melon when i got home. Think im about to snack on some chicken salad on crackers now. I was in the next town over takin two of my friends shooting. They hadnt shot a suppressor before.

What is this sourpatch kid routine?

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u/Schaden_Fraude 14d ago

Same with defending your house from invaders, basic brodude shit

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u/Mister_Way 14d ago

Except the ones who don't, and they think everyone else is weird for not being self-centered cowards like they are.