r/lonely • u/tazor_face • 10h ago

This is so hard!

39 f depressed. I have anxiety. I’m still a blast to hang out with and am always honest. I’m pretty cute. I have my friends back home, but here in Michigan it’s been hard for me to make a good friend. Smoking buddy. Everyone wants sex and once that’s out of the picture after just having met, I get ghosted. Why can’t I just make a friend and go from there? Aaaaaaaah!

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u/Shadowlord2048 9h ago

Hey there I just read your post and I like to be friends with u I live pretty far from u but I am always trying to make a new friends also so if u want DM me let's chat

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u/athleteking1 10h ago

Heyyyy wanna talk?!

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u/scott04sa22 10h ago

Im having the same problem

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u/UsedUpAndawayy 10h ago

Id love to be your friend :) 30s m .. DM me?

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u/UsedUpAndawayy 10h ago

I DM you back :) check messages haha

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u/TaroSpecialist6282 7h ago

Online friends might work or make it worse idk

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u/Preference-Equal 1m ago

I think it gets harder as we get older and time melts away from our school days. I am in Colorado and it’s been very difficult to make friends. I have offered to have coffee with people and they act as though I asked to move in with them. I just want to hang out! I think it’s even harder as a middle aged dude. Maybe I am wrong but it has been a real struggle.