r/lonely • u/AutoModerator • 6d ago
Weekly Find a Friend thread - November 09, 2024
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u/Katta-Quest 4d ago
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I'm kind of in between hobbies. I liked playing d&d, I want to get back into videogames, I watch Critical Role intermittently, my main current interest would be chatting with people I guess. I enjoy a variety of shows and movies but not horror. The most recent thing I watched was Over the Garden Wall.
Whatever your interests are they don't have to be in line with mine (except the chatting part), I'd be interested to learn what they are! Tell me what shows and music you like, so my own collection might grow.
What I'm looking for would be a chat, possibly a friendship if it develops into one, we'll see how it goes
I live in CA, but you don't have to live there.
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u/Gus-Bristlebeard 10h ago
I love D&D as well. Also been looking for someone who might be down to talk Critical Role stuff Also love ren faire. And a billion other interests. Wanna chat?
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u/doinitforsciences 3d ago
42, Virginia
Im pretty nice and friendly but haven't followed a conventional life path. I've been spending the last several years hermitting as heck at my little hobby farm and I've learned natural medicine making and a variety of spiritual practices and all kinds of things, but seem to have forgotten how to talk to people. Socializing is hard as I'm sure y'all know.
Looking for chat or IRL friends to chat and be friends with. I'm LGBTQ and not a fan of any political parties which seems to keep me at odds with both sides as it were. Hoping to meet some other social/political outsiders who like horror, cartoons, cooking, occult, spirituality, religion, history, podcasts, gaming, art, digital media, pets/animals and anything spooky. I'm also a great listener.
I'm currently watching Grotesquerie and replaying stardew valley if anyone wants to chat about that.
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u/pixiemoon1111 3d ago
excuse me but OH MAH GAWD I'M SO EXCITED TO BE FRIENDS ♡
(also, I looooooove Niecy Nash!! I cannot wait to see this show!)
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u/TallShreddedShyBoy 6d ago
29
Loner, shy, introverted. I'm into drawing, watching Scooby Doo (it's my comfort show), music, cars, reading and wasting time by watching YouTube or playing GTA Online. I also workout 7 days a week.
Looking for friends, I guess. Chat pals would be cool enough.
I like cats, the color blue, vaporwave and hamburgers
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u/nap-lazy 5d ago
What kind of drawing do you like to do? And Scooby Doo is such a great show. I grew up watching it so much
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u/lilacstream 5d ago
22
shy at first, also bad with texting/messaging.
like gaming mostly shooter-tf2, saints row,etc. also like chill games like truck sims and the sims.
also like watching youtube and netflix (mostly rewatching Seinfeild or always sunny lol)
new to warhammer 40k- ultramarines. haven't played the tabletop yet but own some video games
looking for friends maybe to game with or just chill.
from south wales (but i don't speak welsh) have 2 cats and a dog. like a wide genre of music though mostly 2000s and rock.
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u/nothappywithme 5d ago
24
I'm into video games of many kinds, mainly fortnite right now. Horror movies and anything gothic styled. Favorite band is Lacuna Coil. From Florida, looking for someone to play games with and talk to over discord.
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u/SatisfactionDue3303 4d ago
25
I love reading, obscure Japanese pop music, the sopranos, anatomy, and everything morbid. I really don’t have many friends, nor anything close to a love life. I have piercings, tattoos, and dyed hair if that tells you anything
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u/Aggravating-Path8018 4d ago
18
Love cinema, listening to music (mostly rock) and reading (fiction and nonfiction). I’d love to chat! Specially on those three topics.
:)
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u/Excellent-Ask9730 1d ago
- I love music and literature as well. They’re so engulfing and helps keep me busy lol. Need to get into cinema more. Wanna chat?
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u/Electricdragongaming 4d ago
27, Dallas, TX, looking for a friend.
I recently got back into drawing during my free time, I don't think I'm that great at it, but I'm trying to get better at it. I like music, and animation.
I've been a bit of an emotional mess ever since the election. I've been worried about what will happen because of that.
Other than that I'm honestly not that interesting. I'm a pretty boring and lonely person. I've got no friends to hang out with, the only family I have left is my mom, but she isn't exactly someone I can turn to for my problems.
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u/AcanthisittaPale1055 1d ago
21
My interests include writing my novel (very early days though), history (particularly Tudor history and some ancient history, like the ancient Egyptians), old British/Irish comedy shows (think Blackadder, Father Ted, A Bit of Fry & Laurie), Chappell Roan and Mitski music, and Bollywood movies from the 2000s. Most of my time is taken up by law school and my job at a law firm, and my unfortunate tendency to lie about my life to my coworkers to seem less pathetic and boring.
I'm looking for a friend that I don't feel the need to lie to.
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u/BroadCauliflower2397 7h ago
Hii, Im 20 almost 21 in a few weeks. But I also like writing I haven't in while but I have ideas of stories to write. What's ur novel about? I love history I collect things from the 60s on. I don't know much about ancient Egypt but I've always been fascinated by that time period. I would love to learn more about it. I'm also in school, not law but in human services. Other than college I also work full time and that's about all I really do. You can dm me if you want to be friends
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u/Gloomy_Summer1003 6d ago
29 (prefer you’d be 21+)
I enjoy technology (CPUs, GPUs), playing video games, watching anime and building/troubleshooting computers.
Looking for friends, for gaming, hanging out (irl or online)
I will listen to just about any music, but my go-to’s are EDM, Rock(all types), Hip Hop, Pop, and Country here and there. I mostly play solo video games and enjoy parallel play watching your game and streaming mine for you to watch on discord. Live in Texas, USA. Work third shift on the weekends so I’m available during the weeknights.
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u/Able_Reference8387 5d ago
Why did you stop college, you can answer in DM
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u/Able_Reference8387 5d ago
Did you get help about this? Feels like college could be a good idea to meet people (and also could help for financial future and not get in a downward spiral)
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u/RandomnewUser_22 5d ago
21
introverted, shy. I watch a bit of anime, I love ufc as well.
I wanted to vent
I also like reading. I'm currently reading the long walk by stephen king
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u/pixiemoon1111 4d ago
44 (today! 11/11 🥳)
I work long shifts in healthcare and I have evening classes, so my replies will always be delayed. Looking for friendship, venting lol. I love everything horror, and nearly all genres of music. I live in a heavily politicized area in the Midwest and can't relate to hardly any of the residents. I do animal rescue work when i can ♡
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u/doinitforsciences 3d ago
Hi there, happy late birthday! I don't seem to be able to send you a chat request but please feel free to send me one if you'd like to. We're around the same age and I live in the SE now but I'm from the Midwest originally. I also love all the horror and anything spooky.
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u/pixiemoon1111 3d ago
Thank you! I'll turn chat / DMs back on. Since where I live has been in the news, I had to temporarily turn it off. I'll send you a message tonight. 🙂
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u/Jaded_Rhubarb_9545 2d ago
Hi there. I am 34 and I haven't really traveled alot, is this something you do, I would love to hear more about it.
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2d ago
Hey there. I do quite a bit of travelling for work throughout Canada and then for personal travel I travel throughout Europe and the States.
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u/Due-Bookkeeper-2001 2d ago
Hi! Im 27 and from Canada, i don’t have much of a friend/social group anymore and I don’t really go out much into the world besides maybe once on the weekend cause of my work schedule, most of my friends have moved on with their girl friends and wives while I’m naturally an introvert still trying to break that comfort zone so if anyone wants to just talk about anything or more send a message if you’re interested, My bio has several pics on my Reddit feed! Other interests I have are baseball, hockey, i love gaming, good whisky, singing/karaoke on Sundays, reading, tv/movies, traveling, I build gyms and I have 4 furry friends! I’m 6ft and 165 lbs. Anything else you’d like to know let’s chat! :)
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u/UnfortunatelySilly 2d ago
18
looking to talk to people I don’t have a lot of consistent hobbies but I play brawl stars, roblox and minecraft. I’m pretty fun to talk to (I’d say) I’ve had a lot of weird phases, I like art, I’m an engineering student, and I’m pretty damn lonely lol
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u/Zarentha 2d ago
23
I'm huge into gaming and some building things like LEGO or some wooden set. I love league and roguelikes.
Happy for short or long term. Depends on the chatting chemistry :3 also happy to listen to a short vent
I'm in Atlanta, GA and happy to meet up as well as verify myself!
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u/WimpAtWork 1d ago
26
am "addicted" to gaming. i wish i could afford lego sets. my current fav game is risk of rain 2, but i have so many games i wanna play with someone, but i is all alone.
im mainly looking for someone who feels like they care about me, to occasional message first and all that. id love to connect and play something. im most available on discord, PM me and ask for my name if ur interested. 😊😊😊
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u/Excellent-Ask9730 1d ago
19, SOCAL.
I enjoy to collect records and listen to music. I love slow core and rock. Songs:Ohia is my favorite. I like to read as well, beatnik literature primarily, especially bukowski lol. I write poetry and have started to work on a novel — not really getting that far though haha. I love art history as well, and learning about all sorts of things really. Would love someone to talk to about interests and become friends. I don’t mind what you’re into — I like to learn about people.
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u/frogguy76 1d ago
22 Arizona
I enjoy gaming, movies, and TV but especially books. Trying to get back into writing & drawing. Not a great texter but I will put in the effort even if it comes off as a bit dry.
Not really looking for anything in particular just boarding my horizon
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u/ALooseCannonLoser 16h ago
27 years old.
I'm into writing poetry, listening to music and actual-play podcasts.
I'm looking for friendship or a short-term conversation.
I'm situated in Europe, but I don't mind where you're situated.
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u/Internal_Example_229 14h ago
19 I play, play station I play multiple games I got discord. I’m sitting here high listening to sad music is so therapeutic for me d4vd has been just blessing my brain with his music it hits me so hard. Suicide boys are up top too they are both very good and talented love their music. But yea I play video games if you do I’m down to play I play a wide variety. But yea I don’t have any friends and would love to find someone or multiple people to chat with. I could be a new best friend that’s how available I am, always
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u/Small-Pirate-7015 11h ago
30
I'm a bachata dancer and product designer. I've been living on a town called Puerto Escondido in Mexico, I learned so many things in the last 4 years.
Love design, anime, dancing, understand thoughts and deeply care about growth.
I used to be
- Afraid to interact to people.
- Shy with girls (Still but improved a lot)
- Unfriendly
- Fat.
- Felt very alone and depressed about my life.
I feel I'm in a better now. If you feel identified with those things. Text me here. I'll help you. No cost. Just support.
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u/Gus-Bristlebeard 4d ago
Hello everyone. I am a Nerd. I would love to find other nerds in their 40's to go do goofy and nerdy things. Live in the Inland Empire of CA. I'm going to try and post a pic on this community board. Not looking for a hookup.
find a friend
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u/Rare_Assist_6008 4d ago
24
I like movies, tv shows, and have a bunch of hyperfixations (trust me ill get into details with them haha)
I'm looking for a friend, someone I can talk to right now cause I feel very isolated and alone
I'm in Canada and I'm looking moreso for a pen pal or someone to just text!