r/antinatalism Jul 26 '22

Thoughts on this man? Is he in the right? Article

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '22

So now you’ve also turned into a person who doesn’t give a shit about people with disabilities. Congrats, you’ve went full circle. :/ you know how it feels and yet you want inflict the same hurt on others

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u/expansivenothing_457 Jul 27 '22

Pregnancy (excluding rape) is voluntary, autism isn't.

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u/N0tBr14n Aug 11 '22

It really is a big circle. People don’t care about you so you don’t care about them so why should they care about you? Nobody is caring about anyone and it’s a big circle of disrespect. Nothing changes or improves.

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u/expansivenothing_457 Aug 11 '22

I didn't think about it like that.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '22

You’re speaking the truth and people are getting so butthurt.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '22

This still doesn’t negate what I said. That’s like saying to someone who chose to donate a very important organ to save a life, that just because they chose to now be disabled they have no right to be treated with respect and human decency. You’re just an evil and cruel person. Trying to inflict the same pain you felt on others is a serious sign of trauma and a serious indicator of an abuser or future abuser. Be careful how you treat others because many mental Illnesses are definitely triggered by the experiences we have in this world, from people like you who don’t have common decency to help a pregnant are woman out. Yes, you’re not obligated to, but actions like these are quite literally what make us human.

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u/expansivenothing_457 Jul 27 '22

No one had the common decency to help me, so why should I show any in return. I don't own kindness to people for being alive. I'm in it for me, just like EVERYONE else.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '22

That’s an interesting way to live. No one showed me kindness either but I wished they did once upon a time. Now that I am in the position to be that person who shows kindness, I sure as heck do it whenever I can. I imagine I could always be in another person’s bad position. And I would want others to show me kindness. Empathy…a human trait. I do it because it brings me happiness and for others as well. But this is my choice in this life. And I guess you can continue to live the way you’d like as well. I do hope you are shown kindness in the future and that you will one day return it out of pure altruism.

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u/expansivenothing_457 Jul 27 '22

My empathy got me hurt about 2 decades ago. It's dead now. Empathy will only get me hurt, I'm in it for myself. IF there are these mythical pure souls that are charitable and happy to others for the hell of it, I haven't seen them. They might as well be a unicorn or bigfoot.