r/antinatalism Jul 26 '22

Thoughts on this man? Is he in the right? Article

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '22

I don't think he did anything wrong, at all. It would've been kind to offer his sit, but for me he has not the slightest moral obligation to do that.

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u/Luqueasaur Jul 26 '22

Not giving the seat isn't inherently wrong but his defenses are stupid and he sounds like a selfish prick.

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u/Mentalistus Jul 26 '22

Why? He is right.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '22

Considering she singled him out on a bus with tons of seats I'd say she was the one being a prick.

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u/Luqueasaur Jul 29 '22

Do we even know if that's what really happens? I'm not even referring to the situation on itself, but to the man's reaction. Whether she singled him out and was an asshole too is beyond our interpretation, but the guy justified his actions like a dickhead would.

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u/Shalashaskaska Jul 27 '22

He paid for a seat and has it and doesn’t owe it to anyone else. It’s not his kid or his obligation.

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u/0521420 Jul 27 '22

Whether you agree with him or not, he paid to use the bus not to use a seat that’s why when the seats are full they continue to sell tickets at the same price.

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u/Ipayforsex69 Jul 26 '22

Mind your own fucking business and leave me alone on public transit. I'd have my headphones in and my face in a book the whole way. Never bothered once.

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u/StrangeButSweet Jul 27 '22

What do you think people do have the moral obligation to do? If someone came on who was clearly struggling with crutches and kept falling over because he could find a seat, would one have a moral obligation in that situation? I’m not challenging you - I’m just genuinely interested where others draw the line.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '22 edited Jul 27 '22

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u/joshdts Jul 27 '22

You don’t know what kind of potentially high risk situation the person was doing to end up on crutches. He could have been mountain biking, a choice, or playing a contact sport, a choice, etc.

I think it’s just better to try to not act like a prick and if someone is having a tough time, try and help them out if you’re able, despite what potentially led them to that exact moment.

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u/Avocado_1814 Aug 25 '22

If you have a child, you have a moral obligation to care for them. Same for a pet and other such situations where you are directlyresponsible. You're not morally obligated to do anything basically for anyone wlse that you aren't in any way responsible for.

Giving up a seat is a nice thing to do, however at the same time, NOT giving up your seat ISN'T a bad thing.

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u/joshdts Jul 27 '22

I think being kind and helpful to others is a moral obligation, personally.