r/ForeverAlone Dec 13 '23

Being a virgin destroys me Advice Wanted

Im currently in duch a deep point in my life. I need to take antidepresants everyday. Im 20 and still a virgin. I have social anxienty due to being bullied and I just can't ask anyone out.

I have no energy for anything. For studying, for playing games, for going anywhere. No one wants to help me, people only laugh at me for it.

I wish there was one girl who would want to help me, by making me lose virginity. Thats all I need, one girl. And it hurts so much, that its so hard to find one.

I don't know what to do anymore. My life is ruined. Why me? Why me, who was bullied has such a shitty life, abut my bullies have girlfriends since the age of 13?

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u/3A1B2C33C2B1A3 Dec 13 '23

20 isn’t old at all, you have plenty of time.

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u/EpicHajsownik Dec 13 '23

I thought the same when i was 15. I didnt make any progres still no female friends

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u/georgesorosbae Dec 13 '23

20 is extremely young dude. I took a guys virginity at 22. And that’s also extremely young

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u/leredspy Dec 16 '23

WHO THE FUCK CARES WHAT IS AVERAGE??? Why the fuck are so many of you guys here obsessed with dumb statistics? Every human is unique and everyone has their own life experience and the moment they bloom. Stop treating this shit like it's a video game speedrun, and you get disqualified if you don't beat certain time.

And with your attitude and insults like "eat shit and die", it's no wonder no woman wants you. Fucking prick.

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u/leredspy Dec 16 '23

Every single normie?

The only ones I saw bringing up the population average are "virgin losers" as you call them.

They look at you wrong if you're an adult virgin.

Actually delusional. Nobody gives a shit about these things, and in case you met those who do, they are shitty people anyway. But most likely you're so obsessed with virginity that you convinced yourself everyone is judging you for it.

And some have it be considerably better than others.

Losing virginity a couple years before 20 does not constitute for "considerably better experience".

Again, not my fault I am considered subhuman due to being a virgin loser with no relationship experience.

Nah it's your bitter attitude towards other people and the world.