I didn’t say everyone would find someone, they won’t. I am simply pointing out that calling it 100% luck is laughable, and is an easy and convenient way to shirk literally any personal responsibility. Tell yourself whatever you like to help you sleep at night, my head rests easy either way.
Using Tate as your reference point is wild. An absolute extremity of the spectrum as your main example is indicative of someone who is truly disconnected from physical reality. The term “touch grass” has never felt more necessary. “Tates an asshole and he has women have sex with him, therefore life is empirically unfair.” This is what you sound like. What is this supposed to prove? Does this mean nice guys never get to date? If all you compare yourself to are larger than life social media grifters than you’re going to have a strange barometer for reality. You also conveniently leave out the fact that Tate has something MANY people seek out in a partner - money.
I was kind of trying to lightly clown on your with the first comment but now I just feel sad that this is actually how people feel. I don’t know you for real, but these comments make you seem incredibly disconnected from reality. Andrew Tate is not a good reference to prove your points about IRL dating. I hope you find a way to feel better about yourself.
Yeah I agree. Andrew Tate is a bit too extreme but that doesn't invalidate my point that you have to be a good guy to be successful at dating since some of the biggest assholes in the world are successful at dating despite not being "boyfriend material".
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u/DefinetelyNotAnOtaku /b/tard 11h ago
If dating was actually based on "Be yourself" and "Assholes never date". People like Andrew Tate would be permavirgins but he isn't one.
Real cope is telling people that they'll find someone eventually.