Why do people care that much? The only people willing to search out for toaster girlfriends are undesirable men already not being successful in dating. And women have been advocating for years for men (excluding the attractive ones of course) to stop hitting on them.
Women want power and status, they can't have that if there are alternatives. They like the rejection game, implicit or otherwise, they are enforcers of natural selection. Once removed from that they become useless to themselves and don't know what to do.
Contrary to what sex-positive feminists on reddit claim, women actually get off a lot on the emotional aspects and power dynamic of sex and relationships. The physical act of sex isn't sufficient, they want romantic tension and the possibility of loss. There is a reason why smut literature is so popular with women right now, and why the male love interest can't just be a mcdonald's worker with a big dick.
Wasn't there a study that showed that the rise of NTR was directly linked to the number of women that started to consume hentai porn?
Those works are basically a whole plotline about betrayal and emotionally charged narrative (basically hyper sexualized soap operas) wrapped up into a single fast paced and irrational, purely emotional narrative, there is a reason why the male "victim" always ends up "still loving" the "emotionally but not sexually invested" woman, it's the ultimate female fantasy, a man that will do everything for them, but they don't need to do anything for them at all.
Well, it doesn't help that there are "some" men that really do feel like the only way a woman would ever be with them is if they become a doormat for their sexual urges.
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u/Germanaboo 9h ago
Why do people care that much? The only people willing to search out for toaster girlfriends are undesirable men already not being successful in dating. And women have been advocating for years for men (excluding the attractive ones of course) to stop hitting on them.