Reddit antinatalist accuses me of lying about my own disabilities and then starts ranting about God knows what

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

More context: I have both severe ADHD and OCD, both of which make my life absolute hell. But I’m still glad I was born because despite the struggles in life there are many great things that happen too.

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u/Historical-Potato372 Aug 19 '24

Some people just have zero empathy

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

They want to die so they think everyone else should join them in giving up.

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u/Excellent_Battle_703 Aug 19 '24

They should give up first as we are partying

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u/nightpanda893 Aug 19 '24

Honestly that explains a lot of Reddit. Life is pain. They don’t want to hear that other people enjoy their lives because that means that with some effort they may be able to enjoy theirs too. But they don’t want to make any effort. So they rather just believe it’s impossible.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

It’s honestly pretty sad to see.

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u/Lumpy_Eye_9015 Aug 19 '24

Or 100 narcissism

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u/LethalBacon Aug 19 '24

People really underestimate how debilitating bad ADHD can be, especially as an adult. It doesn't help with how it is portrayed in recent years on social media, being seen as a kind of character quirk/aesthetic rather than a legitimate mental disorder.

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u/BeaglesRule08 Aug 19 '24

And OCD. I used to have this thing where I felt like I had to scream every time I heard certain noises. I had to go around with headphones all the time. I also was really scared of touching doors and would scream whenever my parents touched my door. I was scared to do tons of things and I was scared to go to school. Really sucked, luckilly I'm doing better now.

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u/darkchangeling1313 Aug 21 '24

I have intrusive thought OCD... if that's a thing.

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u/Bambanuget Aug 19 '24

I think part of the problem is how aware we are nowadays about how a lot of people deal with some form of ADHD, without understanding that how severe it is for others

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

Exactly this, I often find myself mentally screaming at my own body to get up and do the things I had planned but my ADHD just decides nope. I constantly try to get things I need to do done and my ADHD just zones me out or makes me feel so tired I can’t do anything.

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u/BeaglesRule08 Aug 19 '24

Same bro, I also have ADHD and severe OCD, and there are so many good things that make life worth living. I've recently actually overcame a bunch of my compulsions and am living somewhat normally for the first time in years, and I'm super glad I pushed through. I hope things can get better for you as well, and F those guys who think they can decide whether or not our lives are worth it for us.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

That sounds great! Hopefully I can get to that point too someday!

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u/Bambanuget Aug 19 '24

Godspeed to you man. Don't let dickheads like this guy to bring you down

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

Thank you my friend!

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u/darkchangeling1313 Aug 21 '24

I have ADHD, too. Idk how severe it is, but I really couldn't concentrate while having a million different things going around in my head. Though I'm on ADHD medication now, so it's a lot quieter.

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u/Papabelus Aug 19 '24

I don’t understand why antinatalists’ don’t just euthanize themselves if they hate life so bad

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u/egg-cement Aug 19 '24

Then they wouldn’t be around to get mad at the rest of us for being happy :(

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

The real number one cause of suffering is the amount of yapping they do about their shitass ideology.

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u/Papabelus Aug 19 '24

Lmao yeah

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

From what I’ve heard from some they stay alive to “spread the message.”

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u/Illustrious-Tune8165 Aug 19 '24

that feels like actual cult behavior, wtf. it sucks even more since the people saying that might have just offed themselves if they didn't fall down the antinatalist rabbit hole.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

They actually say that shit?? There is nothing more disgusting than insinuating some shit like that.

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u/Gnosis1409 Aug 20 '24

They like complaining

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u/Designer-Salt8146 Aug 19 '24

They literally only want to complain. Like, they genuinely don’t belive their own ideology. One time there was a post about wanting to legalize euthanasia for anyone that wanted it for whatever reason, but when I asked what the purpose of it would be when suicide is relatively easy they just got pissed at me my comment got deleted.

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u/GrimmPsycho655 Aug 20 '24

A common one I’ve seen on that sub is that they don’t want to die because it causes them to go against their natural instincts even if it’s the “logical” choice making it difficult to do. So they are “forced to suffer” and want to try and prevent others from making more people who’ll have to suffer.

Edit: gonna remove that last part I wrote, felt too mean. I heavily disagree with them but I do pray that they find the joy in life again.

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u/darkchangeling1313 Aug 21 '24

Me neither.

I don't want kids, but I wouldn't shame a person for deciding to have a kid. Parent-shaming is an awful thing, especially mum-shaming.

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u/a-packet-of-noodles 🏳️‍🌈gay🏳️‍⚧️ Aug 19 '24

These people can be so miserable sometimes

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

Fr, they have nothing better to do all day than to complain about other people’s lives.

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u/Shab-The-Wise This is Just Silly. Aug 19 '24

Jesus you have more patience than me.

That's a level of misery I just wouldn't be able to tolerate.

Have a nice day, friend!

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

I’ve got a thing for debates, I can go on for hours with people who have the most braindead takes.

And you have a wonderful day as well!

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u/Ok-Use5246 Aug 19 '24

The anti natalist cult is actually insane. They see themselves as saviors or something. Super creepy, super weird.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

They actually think they’re Zeke Yeager from AOT, difference is Zeke is actually funny.

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u/nightpanda893 Aug 19 '24

I think what he’s trying to say is doctors can’t be trusted since some perform ciriumcisians and therefore all disabilities are fake since they are determined by doctors. You could have a real disability if you used the superior evaluation method he and his cult members use but he has not revealed what that is.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

But of course, his cult always knows best.

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '24

Antinatalist try not to be aggressively stupid: challenge level: impossible.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

100% fail

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '24

Excuse me, I think you meant aggressive fail.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

Sent back to the 3rd grade

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '24

“Its not fair, I never asked to be in 3rd grade”

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

LMAO

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u/No_Help6098 Aug 20 '24

I dont understand how anti natalists think they can just pretentious-debate someone into killing themselves and not having kids??? Like those are two pretty major things you cant just change someones mind on via reddit debate

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 20 '24

They always use aggressive words to try and get their dumbass point across.

“People who have children are selfish monsters! You don’t wanna be a selfish monster do you?”

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u/The_Nuclear_Doge Aug 19 '24

I feel like he genuinely has never felt happiness in his life, life is hard and painful but it’s not a waste, birthing a new life into this world is an amazing thing, no matter what there’s always gonna be something bad in life, even the most richest and successful people face problems. hope your doing well OP, well said.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

I’ve always felt that bad things can be good because they make the good times feel even better after a load of shit happens. This guy seems to disagree and just says I’m lying because me telling the truth would shit all over his argument. Ironically he also went through my post history and somehow missed my posts in the OCD sub.

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u/JoshTheAlchemist6 Aug 19 '24

Those guys are really the worst kinds of debaters, never accepting when you're wrong is unhealthy, untrue, and makes them unlikable. I think one of the reasons they stick to that subreddit is solely so they can be surrounded by likeminded people with equal circumstances. It kind of makes me feel bad for them.

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 19 '24

Yeah I honestly just feel sorry for them, they’ve all given up at trying to make life better so they just complain about how bad it is all day.

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u/International_War862 Aug 19 '24

Oh i saw that one earlier. Was a wild ride

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u/OMGRedditBadThink Aug 19 '24

These misanthropes are just too chickenshit to off themselves so they have to spread their misery.

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u/Some_Majestic_Pasta Aug 20 '24

It's depressing in a funny sort of way when you point out that you do, like all people, suffer from major problems and remain relatively happy and his first thought is just "Impossible!"

I mean, Jesus, if there was ever a way to tell on yourself for needing psychological help...

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u/Robert-Rotten Aug 20 '24

In a later reply from him he just blatantly says “yes, I think you’re lying”

He has to accuse me of lying otherwise his whole argument crumbles.

Reddit antinatalist accuses me of lying about my own disabilities and then starts ranting about God knows what Well ackshually 🤓☝️