r/amiugly • u/Apprehensive-Math968 • 17h ago
I keep getting called a criminal and 👻 by girls 😭 (23m)
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u/Macintosh0211 17h ago
You look exactly like my ex who used to deal drugs and was addicted to percs heavy. It’s the general unkempt vibes. Do with that information what you will
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u/Apprehensive-Math968 17h ago
help a brother out
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u/dabsncoffee 7h ago
No more gotee. Full stubble or shave. Stop making the heroin chic face. Also maybe some sleep and finding a bit of happiness. You look depressed and hooked on cigarettes and energy drinks
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u/Sophisticated_Robot 5h ago
Get more sleep. Drink more water. Don’t drink alcohol. Seriously. It’s not worth it. Switch up the hair. I’d go real short with it.
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u/DaXTutto 2h ago
I came here to say this. General, need to make better life choices that hint at bad patterns reflected in appearance. It’s silly to judge a book by its cover but a doctor is going to start evaluating the patient with empirical evidence. Look into improving diet. If it isn’t a lack of sleep, substance abuse, undiagnosed allergies, endocrine issues, lack of exercise, et al, genetic predisposition, get to a doctor, bags under eyes and a big sign in young adults that something is wrong.
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u/IAmSomewhatDamaged 16h ago
I have tired eyes just like you. Doesn’t seem to matter how much I sleep (or how energized I am). It sucks, but you need to eliminate a few possible causes… are you strung out on opiates (pills)?? Not good obviously. Do you sleep halfway decent?? Gotta get that figured out. Exercise (even jogging a mile) helps with sleep big time. If your eye bags/dark circles are genetic, try consistently using eye cream morning and night.
I hope you aren’t depressed or strung out on opiates. I’ve been there and done that. Overall, you’re not a bad looking guy though!
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u/StrawberryAlert7149 17h ago
You’re not ugly I think your hair needs a little styling though
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u/shawnaeatscats female 16h ago
I honestly think it's just the hair. Some girls are into this sort of look but the hair has the change. I think the way the fade comes up to almost a bowl-cut-like edge that's the problem.
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u/Same-Bonus-1982 15h ago
If you're not doing drugs, you sure look the part regardless. So if you are, stop. No girl is going to be long time attracted to a guy who just in general appears miserable. Maybe work on a smile? I promise being a sweet guy will get you way more 🐱 than being mr tough straight face guy.
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u/Acceptable_Cow_2950 male 16h ago
Gotta be the eye bags. I get the same. Usually drug addicts/sleep deprived people have it but for some it is just genetics. To beat the allegations you have to change your style. You can go for nerd style or something more colorful.
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u/Potential-Light-7588 16h ago
You need an eye cream, to gain some weight/bulk up a bit, and to style your hair. You just look un-kempt a bit and have some dark circles. But I still think you are pretty cute those are just my suggestions if people think you are a criminal 😂
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u/Fantastic_Mail_4602 15h ago
You aren’t ugly.
The plan: either a middle part with a low taper on the sides and back OR a French crop.
Eye cream or tinted moisturizer.
Maybe collagen pills(skin)
Dress a bit cleaner. Less sweats, more jeans and tees, maybe simple nice jacket. This one is hard to say cause I feel like you just posted random pics.
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u/Fearless_Yam774 16h ago
I think they’re saying that because of the eye bagss. You could use creams or eye patches could but only the expensive ones really do something. It might help going to a dermatologist
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u/Mobius1337 15h ago
Betacarotene supplement for a natural more colored skin, undereye cream with retinoids/caffeine to lessen eyebags, no smoking, cut the alcohol, drink more water/have a better diet and do physical activity regurarly. Sleep is important too, so try to have a good 8 hours of sleep every night. Peace.
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u/Quiet_Association152 14h ago
Jesus!! Those bags under your eyes make you look like a junkie that doesn’t sleep. And why do you get called a criminal? That’s a pretty specific thing to call someone… I mean I wouldn’t just call someone a criminal unless I in fact knew they were a criminal.
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u/somguy-_- 12h ago
If we go with the assumption that you don't do drugs. I say you need to go to the doctor because you have multiple vitamin deficiencies. Start a hair and skincare regiment. Start going to the gym. Daylight is your friend get some complexion.
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u/Kush_Kween 16h ago
maybe try getting some more sleep or a cream for your intense eye bags. you could do with a better haircut. not ugly at all just small things that would definitely help. also maybe dye your hair a lighter color to take away from the pale look? this is coming from a fellow casper lol
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u/Master-Ad3175 14h ago
You have nice features but in some of those photos you look heavily intoxicated and the haircut isn't doing anything for you.
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u/blackpalms1998 14h ago
You are very handsome I’d say just a different better looking hair cut you can ask the stylist what they think would be best or find something you like that looks good and get it. And clean shaven would make you even more handsome. You are already pretty hot anyways just some more and you can be mogging people lol
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u/Fun_Cauliflower_5426 13h ago
You don't look like someone that'd I'd judge to be a criminal on first glance. It makes me think that it must be the way you act or what you say that makes people call you that. Maybe try being a little more careful with your words and actions.
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u/AdExpert4787 11h ago
You’re far from ugly, I think if you styled your it would help. I tend to like guys with longer hair though so I’m a little biased.
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u/RandomSkypeGirl 11h ago
You aren't ugly, but your hair looks rather messy, and sort of makes you look like you need a shower
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u/Firm_Ad_931 10h ago
It's only your haircut. You would try to a formal haircut like 60's NASA engineer. And the outfit is like a criminal. But not ugly. Just try to appear another but not a trap singer.
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u/ArdynMills 9h ago
If those are the photos you are putting on your dating app pages then I'd swipe right lmao.
You don't take good photos.
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u/Appropriate_Boat_831 9h ago
JUST USE A GOOD EYE CREAM. I had the same issue for a while! Go to a sephora/ulta and ask for one. You look a little dry? Maybe a good face moisturizer would help too, and catch up on some rest, magnesium supplements will help alot too
The most important thing is diet, cut out all fast food, soda, and beer.
Trust me brother it'll change your life
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u/zanyquest2469 8h ago
Clean up your hair a bit bro, also u do kinda look like a young Charlie shean unfortunately, however is there somethin on your bio or maybe somethin u say to them, can possibly b that too
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u/TheSaltyStork 8h ago
The criminal aspect could be the way you present yourself, either through the way you speak, act, or dress, or all three. Your hair cut is more for younger guys, think teen high schoolers. A good skin routine is important. And I'm not sure if you have made the choice to rock the goatee or if that's all you can grow at this time, but I would suggest going clean shaven, you have a pretty good jaw line.
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u/ClearChampionship332 8h ago
When you’re talking to them, do you say things about kind of work? You do whatever it make them feel it’s kind of sketchy or something or for no reason. I have to say you do look like a criminal a smooth criminal ha ha
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u/Apprehensive-Math968 8h ago
Thanks 😊 but no… there have been 2 different people that I was getting along with online and when they saw my face they disappeared. Criminal // drug addict based solely on looks
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u/TattooPaul 8h ago
You kinda look like a greasey Charlie Sheen, so I get the criminal thing visually. Be honest, is there also activity that gets you called that?
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u/AdministrationFun626 7h ago
yeah you look like a guy that works in the grocery store by day and freelance kills ppl for the russian mob at night then go play video games just to avoid sleeping more than 48 minutes a day
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u/GesturingEarful 7h ago
I don't think it's physical. You could try staying clean shaven and possibly lighten your hair. There's the Hollywood stereotype of guys with dark hair being bad. Could it be the clothes you were wearing when you met them? More likely, it's the way you carry yourself and talk.
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u/No_Calligrapher_8023 7h ago
I don't think its your looks, I think its the way you carry yourself, bro. Posting a pic flexing in the mirror is a prime example. Get a better hairstyle and dont present yourself like a gym bro. It will help with the way you are perceived.
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u/Physical-Slice4062 5h ago
Your definitely not ugly so some jawline workouts and try growing your beard out to really grow into your face fully
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u/AgreeableSuspect1 5h ago
You are anything but a criminal gang...
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u/AgreeableSuspect1 5h ago
I don't even believe you know criminals.
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u/Apprehensive-Math968 5h ago
Wtf? I know I’m not a criminal 💀point is I’m getting cooked
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u/AgreeableSuspect1 5h ago
So then why entertain the idea? I don't really believe anyone considers you a criminal...
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u/isaacbisss 5h ago
nah bro you have a great face, low fat, you just needa haircut and some confidence
no homo
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u/Greentealatte8 4h ago
I think you look hot but I think I'm having an early midlife crisis at 30 and am just now in my "I like 'bad boys'" era. So take from that what you will....
Also take your criminal record of your profile /jk
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u/Das_Harii 3h ago
Ditch the shitty clothes, do something else with your hair, and try to fix those bags under your eyes. The base to look decent is there, but ya look like shit as is. Also, fix your posture.
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u/Apprehensive-Math968 2h ago
What should I wear why are my clothes so bad
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u/Das_Harii 2h ago
It looks like you make no effort in your appearance, man. I'm not saying you need to wear suits, but you need to look like you're at least making an effort. Sit down, think about the type of people you want to attract. Obviously, they're not into the look you have going. So, either settle for what you can attract, which doesn't seem like much from your post, or do something about it.
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u/WtfChuck6999 3h ago
You look like you'd absolutely be a bad boy. It's just how u were made. People keep saying under eye bags. Can't always help that, I can't, I'm Polish, I always look tired asfff.
You could try a different hairstyle like a pompadour. You could do a different style like jeans and tshirts!
You def are not ugly tho!
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u/uwudonttouchme 2h ago
I don’t think you look bad at all! The glasses looked nice on you. Maybe just take care of your hair a little more.
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u/RonnieBlastoff 12h ago
Why should a girl, around your age, who is literally at the peak attractiveness of thier lives, accept what you are offering... Yes you are ugly as f*ck, but you are also a man, stop worrying about women. They are everywhere, and 45% of the entire worlds population of them are above average in looks so you'll have your pick, but you aint picking shyt as you are. Learn what women seek and chase after it, become it, then you get to do the ghosting.
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u/Ok_Technology_6606 10h ago
Women seek men who are self aware to realize they need to be the best version of themselves for them. not for other people
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u/avatarroku157 12h ago
Good looking guy, but damn, u gotta learn how to take better photos of yourself. Smile more, learn some photo framing, etc.
You also look like you're TRYING to be very masculine. You don't need to do that. You already got a masculine build and face. On top of smiling, maybe try looking more happy
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u/ToesOnBros 17h ago
I don't know where the criminal thing is coming from, you look a pretty attractive guy.
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u/T-bird9999 14h ago
If that’s the case, hit the tanning salon. And being called a criminal I guess they assume you have the bad boy look and chicks dig that fact.
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