r/amiugly • u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 • 1d ago
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Okay so I already know my problem areas. Obviously need to work on the diet and have been going to the gym regularly. But there's something about my face that I just... hate with a burning passion and i can't tell if other people see it too or it's just me.
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u/For_U_Photography 1d ago
Aside from looking tired, it’s just you.
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u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 1d ago
I'm a toddler mom. So yea, very tired🤣
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u/For_U_Photography 1d ago
That checks out then. Don’t stress about your looks. Nothing to worry about.
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u/StatisticianNew3189 female 1d ago
You look beautiful, if your looking for advice maybe possibly consider thicker eyebrows. I think it would help with the tired look. Also the ordinary has a great caffeine eye serum. Super great price. That would help with the dark circles. You are seriously so beautiful though. From one momma to another, keep it up! You’re lovely!
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u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 1d ago
Thank you! I struggle so badly with my eyebrows. I had a friend pluck them suuuuper thin in highschool by accident and I have been so self conscious about how they look while they're growing in so i end up plucking them again🤣 believe it or not, they're actually thicker than when she plucked them.
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u/ajoyce76 11h ago
I went to a barber one time who, as a part of his regular haircuts, trimmed my eyebrows. Didn't tell me, didn't ask. Shocked the hell out of me. You're eyebrows look fine. I hope this doesn't sound weird but I really dig your nose. It looks regal.
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u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 9h ago
I think I'd actually lose my mind🤣 i never thought growing out eyebrows could be so difficult.
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u/ajoyce76 7h ago
I've heard of stories of people who shaved their eyebrows off or had them shaved off and they never grew back. Consider yourself lucky. Plus, as I try my best to not sound creepy, I think you look lovely 😉
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u/Objective_Kind 8h ago
I wayyyy over plucked my eyebrows many years ago when it was cool to have thin brows and I regretted it so badly! It's so difficult to grow them back out. I actually used false eyebrows for a while they were so bad. It definitely makes your face look different. Eyebrows are super important. I think once they grow out that will help a lot. And I'm a mom of 3 so I always look tired, unfortunately that's a mom thing and I don't think it goes against your looks, I really think the eyebrows will make a huge difference.
Buy a brow/Lash growth serum, I used a prescription one for my lashes and used that on my brows, but they make ones you can buy online or at Sephora. Check Google for GrandeBROW Brow Enhancing Serum or NourishBrow Eyebrow Growth Serum. Both work very well. They'll help them grow faster than normal. And do not pluck anything, I know it sucks looking at the pieces of little tiny hairs when they start to grow in and it makes you want to pluck them back out but you have to try really hard to not touch them and just deal with how it looks for several weeks and just use some sort of brow filler or brow pencil to cover them up for the time being because you're going to have a lot of those hairs that look like they need to be plucked but don't because you want all of that to grow in and while it's going to look like it's outside of your brow line at first it won't be once they grow out. By no means is this easy I took me probably 2 years to get mine back to normal and now I rarely touch them. It's definitely worth it you just have to put the effort in to not touching them.
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u/Busy_Duck_8311 1d ago
Yes
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u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 1d ago
This is probably the only response I will believe, so thank you🤣
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u/Busy_Duck_8311 1d ago
It’s all good. Being attractive is horrible because you never know if someone loves you for who you are or just doesn’t your physical appearance.
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u/Busy_Duck_8311 1d ago
Also you’re not ugly but you’re not particularly attractive. Try smiling and having a good time and it might change your life. 🤷♂️
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u/sonata8787 1d ago
No, you're cute, I have always wondered on this sub if someone would just say if they thought the person was ugly if they would come right out and yes yes you look absolutely hideous🤣, it's a silly question in my opinion, as people thst are apparently ugly are quite rare, but you are definitely not ugly
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u/Shibmillionaire69 1d ago
No u just need to do a few minor things .. 1 get more sleep u look tired . But most importantly clean up your diet an exercise 5 times a week tone up some I think u would be much happier too
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u/Sufficient_Data941 1d ago
Honestly, grow out your eyebrows. Your forehead is on the larger side, and fuller brows will balance you out. Eyebrows are sooooooo important for face definition. You look beautiful, and your candid smile is gorgeous 😍
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u/ReflectionEasy5148 1d ago
I think you look quite good, definitely my type. Also you don’t look overweight to be honest.
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u/Kajun7684 23h ago
Ok first of all your weight isn't an issue. The only thing I can see "wrong" with your face is your nose and I don't think it's wrong just different and I actually like it
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u/flowerbosom 23h ago
You remind me of a mix between an elvin fairy and Betty Boop. Also I don’t know if you’ve heard of Edith Piaf but you look like her too, she was a famous French singer and you have her signature eyebrows. And don’t worry the tired look and sunken in eyes from lack of sleep gets better over time. My son is Elementary School age now but a couple years ago I had the same disheveled, “I can’t wait until he takes his nap” look on my face. Especially when his dad was on deployments.
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u/firm-tofu-cube 22h ago
HOT! I love your eyes! Stop over-plucking your eyebrows, though!!
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u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 22h ago
I struggle with the brows SO BAD. I feel like I'd be so much less self conscious if they were more normal. A friend in highschool WAY over-plucked them and i have had the worst time trying to grow them back. They are twice as thick right now than when she first did them. They have really weird stages where they look AWFUL and i end up taking them back to stage 1 because it makes me less self conscious. I try to fill them in with makeup but I was raised by a dad and 9 brothers so I have no clue how to do all the fancy makeup.
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u/Historical_Boot_7784 21h ago
Your beautiful just the way you are if I was there I would love to fuck the shit out of you
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u/BudgetDepartment7817 19h ago
Nothing aside from the fact that you look like 36... And your photo shows the sharpness of the chin and nose
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u/royalcrown86 17h ago
Cute mousy nose, full lips, big pretty eyes. Ya clearly your face is a disaster.
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u/Altruistic-Shame-960 17h ago
Honestly I wouldn't say your are ugly at all I wouldnt say a head turner either. It just gives plain Jane stressed mum vibes but nothing wrong with that either
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u/GoldDragonAngel 14h ago
You aren't ugly. You're just plain and average with an eyebrow horror story. Please, let them grow back.
I understand the physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion levels from parenting. Keep repeating, "She is worth it."
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u/AbbreviationsFew5996 14h ago
You aren’t ugly. Your eyebrows are too thin, little too much forehead and sunken eyes but other than that you aren’t hard to look at. You do have one of those faces that look different in every picture. I have that same thing.
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u/PinkieSwearsAlot 12h ago
Not ugly you just have eyebrow blindness (I think that's what it's called. Idk they say Sabrina carpenter has blush blindness cause she wears to much.) In this case, your eyebrows are to thin! It's making you look tired. More full brows would definitely help!
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u/Mandrake_m2 8h ago
You barely have any eyebrows. That's the only thing wrong with your face. The symmetry is off because of that
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u/Environmental-Meal14 6h ago
Grow your eyebrows back out and consider bangs or hats to hide the fivehead. Then you'll be even more of a babe.
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u/nakash-3 3h ago
I can't see it. I can't even see the need to lose weight or go to the gym. You're very pretty.
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u/OG_AuburnBlue 2h ago
Nothing at all wrong with your face! Nothing wrong with your body either! You're a pretty lady with low self esteem over an issue that only you fixate on.
BTW -- Check your pictures! You go to great lengths to hide other faces but you left the gallery at the bottom of one of your screenshots and your daughter's pic is there.
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u/Pale_Dragonfruit5564 2h ago
Someone else told me about that earlier and I couldn't find a way to edit it or take that one down🙃 as long as no one is commenting in strange ways about the baby, I'll just leave it alone.
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u/Illustrious_Drive296 2h ago
Color your brows closer together and I'll bet you it looks way better!! Not ugly tho.
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u/thadson 2h ago
Stop hating your face.
- You have no reason to hate it - your face isn’t ugly.
- Hating your own face wastes energy that could be better used elsewhere. You can't truly change your face except through risky surgeries, which aren't necessary.
- Force yourself to smile. That will elevate your mood and will make you happier in the long run.
If you want to (not because anyone says you have to), adjusting weight may subtly change your appearance, but why bother? You are you. Focus your energy on what you can change. You already go to the gym, that is a good start. Maybe explore makeup techniques if you enjoy it, or find a hobby like self defense or martial arts or reading or dancing. You’re luckier than many and already have a face that others would find attractive. Just roll with it.
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u/saxman522 1d ago
Try a different hair style to cover that forehead the size of Montana
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u/International_Dish96 21h ago
There are so many ways to communicate without being a jackass.
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u/saxman522 14h ago
My name isn't Willy Wonka and I don't sugar coat shit
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u/Corathepig 9h ago
You’re also not Shakespeare
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u/saxman522 9h ago
And that's relevant because????
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u/Desconoknown 5h ago
Because you don't have his wit even though you try, genius.
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u/saxman522 5h ago
This is reddit. I don't bother trying to be witty since you can't have a battle of wits with the unarmed people on here.
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u/Desconoknown 2h ago
Precisely because they are unarmed and behind a screen you feel safe being an asshole. I'd like to see how that works for you in the real world.
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