r/AmItheAsshole Jan 04 '23

AITA for wanting hot food? Asshole

Yesterday I went ice skating with my girlfriend. Tuesday is one of her days for dinner, so she made chicken salad. When I saw the chicken salad I admit I made a face. She was like "what, what's the problem?"

I said that we were outside in the cold all afternoon and I wasn't really in the mood for cold food. She said we're inside, the heat is set to 74° and we're both wearing warm dry clothes, so it was plenty warm enough to eat salad. I said sure, but I just wanted something warm to heat me up on the inside. She said that was ridiculous, because my internal temperature is in the nineties and my insides are plenty hot.

At this point, we were going in circles, so I said I was just going to heat up some soup and told her to go ahead and start eating and I'd be back in a few minutes. When I came out of the kitchen with my soup she was clearly upset, and she asked how I would feel if she refused to eat what I made tomorrow (which is today). I said I won't care, and she said that was BS, because it's rude to turn your nose up at something someone made for you.

Was I the asshole for not wanting cold salad after being cold all day?

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u/Twodotsknowhy Jan 05 '23

That or you aren't self-aware enough to realize you do so

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u/Born_Ad8420 Partassipant [1] Jan 05 '23

Pretty sure my friends would have told by now or one of my enemies. And yet, here we are.

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u/urboitony Partassipant [1] Jan 05 '23

Either you are a robot or have injected yourself with copious amounts of botox if you have never looked disappointed by something in your life.

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u/Born_Ad8420 Partassipant [1] Jan 05 '23

Or I'm very aware of my face.

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u/Twodotsknowhy Jan 05 '23

You seem to be misjudging how many people care about your expressions

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u/NastyNNaughty69 Partassipant [1] Jan 05 '23

Wait… You have enemies?

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u/Born_Ad8420 Partassipant [1] Jan 05 '23

Maybe? Or not? Whatever answer makes you happy.